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writes:I think my brothers girlfriend is horrid to him. they were together for 5 months when she came to live with us in my mum n dads house, and id just had my baby at the time. she didnt have a job or any income, and didnt pay board to my mum, but she also doesnt do anything to help us round the house, and i resent her because i do chores and pay mum regular board aswell as lookin after my baby, and she just sits there avin a fag and a coffee or on the internet all day. were all up before 9 am, shell sleep in til 1 or 2pm! shes so lazy yet my brother loves her! she calls him names like dick head, and twat, and mum doesnt bat an eye lid about it yet im livid and want to smack her face in for takin the piss! my dad caught her on the phone tellin her friend she didnt need a job because she was gettin away with sponging off me and my mum and brother. i think that in itself is enough for me to av a go but mum dont want the trouble. shes totally takin us for a ride in our own house and my bro cant see it! please help me figure out what to do to stop this golddigging idiot from carryin on. thanks in advance x
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reader, Tisha-1  +, writes (22 December 2008):
 Eeek, what an awful situation to be in. Is there any possiblity that you can move out on your own? If not, try to do the cleaning outside their door, using the vacuum cleaner, first thing at about 7 AM, every morning. If she gets satisfaction from sponging off you and your mum and brother, just make things a little less comfortable. Put a little too much salt in her food, spill a drop or two of bleach on her best top or jeans, just a drop, mind you.
Tell her that your baby's doctor has told you that secondhand smoke is very bad for the child's health (which it is) and that all smoking inside the house has to stop. (This includes you, your brother and your mum as well.) Enable the internet blocking software on the computer during the hours she's home, and don't tell her how to fix it. If she complains about the internet being down, suggest she go down to the internet cafe if she needs to use it. If your baby is crying during the time she's sleeping, walk the baby up and down the hall past all the bedrooms, while trying to comfort your baby. Insist that everyone must be quite during naps and when the baby goes to bed for the night. When your baby has a really poopy diaper, hand the baby to her and tell her you have an emergency to cope with, then race off to the bathroom. If she leaves shampoo and toiletries around, pour some of them out, or borrow them yourself, and say brightly if she notices, oh, I didn't think you'd mind!
Okay, I think that you really shouldn't do all those things, but it is nice to fantasize about, isn't it? Maybe that will help you cope with her.
It really is up to your mum what to do about her.
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