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anonymous
writes: Hey, just wondering if anyone had any advice.There's this boy that i like, but he doesn't know i like him. Recently i was getting jealous feelings towards this girl that was always by him and talking to him. My friend has some classes with this boy and kind of finds things out for me. Well she told me this girl that i was jealous of didn't like him because he teased her so much, so i felt much better. But this morning i woke up from a dream, and in it was the boy i like but also the girl. He accidentally fell on the floor and she fell too, and coincidentally landed on top of him. Then they kissed. And after that dream i'm now even more jealous of her again. I know it was just a dream, but I've just been so jealous lately like at school and stuff. My friends tell me i shouldn't really be jealous because he doesn't even know i like him and that neither does anyone else know, that i'm kind of jealous when i don't really have a right to be. But yet i remain jealous all the same. Some other girls are getting me jealous even more. I need some way to get rid of this jealousy!!Please help :) Thanks.
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reader, kitty_3 +, writes (21 December 2008):
I've been there. You like this boy and so you view every girl he talks to as a threat. That's what happens when you admir from afar. Personally, when I've gotten in there and become one of those girls who he's talking to, it's made the jealousy melt away, for suddenly I was on the same wavelength as them. It's not always eay, but if you really like him you'll be glad you did it. And who knows? It may even lead to a relationship. Good luck!
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