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writes:my wife has left me....she told me that she loves me but is no longer in love with me.she said that it feels odd when she kisses me and cant give me what i want. i have so many questions that i want answers to but she says she cant give me these answers. we have been together for 13 years with an 8 year old son and i honestly believed we were soulmates. there is no one else and i know that for a fact. i believe that she is confused with her emotions, or maybe im just hoping she is... i feel completely lost without her and cannot even think about her with another man without it killing me inside.i have asked her to go to counselling with me which she has agreed to but she did say that she wont get back with me and shes only going so it helps me understand it... does anyone know why she has done this.... can you truly fall out of love with someone or is it just that our relationship has moved on to another level?please help im hurting so badly
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reader, happy24birthday  +, writes (21 December 2008):
 I would say your wife is unhappy, and there's nothing you can do or say as her husband to fix it. She has lost passion, and now it's like loving a friend. Although she seems to have her mind made up, maybe counseling will change that. I do think it's a good sign that she is going, even if she says it's only for you to understand. If it ends up that way, however, maybe you will understand, which will still be helpful - painful but helpful. I've never had a soul mate, so I can't totally relate. It sounds like it was lovely at one time. It was lovely for her, too, but she's moving in a different direction now. Let her move. Her fire is gone at the moment. I don't want to give you false hope, but don't be surprised if she shows up a year from now begging your forgiveness and wanting you back.
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