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male
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:Dear…friendsI am ARI, Male 25, working for a telecom company. And I apply for Australia, hope so soon I will migrate there. I have a kid of 1year.My wife……. When I 1st offered love that time I didn’t see her cause I meet her online then talk over phone. My family members like her so much so when I met her I ignored her all lacking because I was bit emotionally week for my family. Then we got married. 2 years passed I don’t feel comfortable with her cause what I like she is not like that. I like sexy figure I think all guys like that I am also the same. I like caring and loving behave also well in bed. She is so stubborn and very short tempered. She likes to dominate me all time.She is so bulky and when we do sex her problems like not concentrate well, sometimes absence minded, Lazy behave, doesn’t like to play. I advice her sometimes so that we can have a good sex life but she doesn’t like to maintain….. She is not concern about her figure and skin. I suggest her lots of things and also sent her internet links so that she can get advice from there. But I feel that she is careless about her look and figure. Now days I am fed up with this behave. She doesn’t give me backup when I face any critical problem or any crisis time. I also try to be behaving cool with he so that she can feel good with me. I always feel that that girl live with me and she left her mum dad for me so I should always take care n love her lot but she always make me disappointed.After 2 years relations I become bit change in my mind. If I see any girl with sexy look then I like to see her figure and if any one cares me that I also like to care her. Few days back I had contact with my very old friend. She cares me and she has a nice look and recent I feeling good when I get her company and also when we talk over phone. I am feeling like loving her……Can’t control myself to stop my attraction for her. She ask out me and I respond her YES. But felt little guilty but still I am with her.I tried to find my problems and I found few but it can be a serious problem. Like my penis is only 7inc maybe its not derisible size and my cum out with in 20 to 30 min maybe with in this time she is not satisfy.I change styles around 3 or 4 positions I apply maybe she doesn’t like changing positions.Sometimes I become flirty with my friends. LOL she doesn’t like it too….she don’t like my any female friends of mine. I don’t feel comfortable and so upset with my married life. Sometimes I feel like I am dying with this life.I became frustrated and sometimes behaving like idiot……..feeling like all expectations smashed.With whom I will run my whole like she does not understand and look as I want. I talked about all this lot but she didn’t response any….I TALK WITH HER ABOUT ALL PROBLEMS LOT………………….I have a kid and situation is not in my fervor …..So what should I do now??????????????HELP me with tipsssssssPlsssssssssssssssI WILL BE GRATEFUL TO YOU……
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reader, didda123  +, writes (26 January 2009):
 Well you do seem to be in a bit of a mess!
You have got yourself involved in a relationship purely because you were too cowardly to stand up to your family and you now have a wife you don't love and a young child if only you had been stronger in the beginning none of this would have happened.
I can honestly not see this relationship working with your wife you have no love or respect for her and you are looking for all kinds of excuses because you have been seeing another woman.
You must be stronger with yourself and decide once and for all whether you wish to get the help of a councellor and save your marriage as you have a child now which needs a stable environment but this can also be achieved if you were to split up if you make your main consideration your child.
You mention the size of your penis being 7 inches well that is above average so i can't see a problem there as long as you are a considerate lover but guilt is probably playing a large part in quality of your sexual performance at the moment so you must sort out your marriage as soon as possible for the well being of all concerned.
There may be a family member or good friend who you can confide in for support and can help you through this.
Be strong and take control of your life and your own destiny and don't let other people influence you so much.
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