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anonymous
writes:today at school it was sex and contrception education and we missed a few classes we had to fill in a survey about where sex clinics are in the city and all the boys kept on asking me where it was (saying that i have been pregnante and i am a slag)i do like atention off the boys but i didnt like this too much they kept on asking me all day and the boy i use to fancy asked me for a shyne (blowjob)i just walked off but i have no idea why they were saying this when i am a virgin and have never even got off before.i told my freind at dinner and she said they were doing it because i was a tease(which i didnt understand)and because i am always laughing at there jokes.what do the boys think of me and what did my freind mean by calling me a tease?
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 October 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks for the answers they have helped a lot but i would realy like some more please
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 October 2007): To be honest, i reallui wouldnt care about wwat anyone says or thnks about u. If you havnt even gotten off with anyone at yr age, how the hell can you be a slag? Infact, I thnk u must be one of the leats slaggest people i know because mst people our age hav (Or say they hav) gotten off with sum1. I respect you for this, n dw about wat other say. Its good to be freindly with boysxxx
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reader, Boonridge McPhalify +, writes (9 October 2007):
 she thinks that because you are friendly to the boys that this is a signal to them that you are sexually interested and flirty with them, but she knows that you have no intention of following through in such a situation so you are teasing them by seeming like you want it but never coming thru with the goods. An analogy would be if you had sweets in front of a small child and kept saying "do you want one?" and when the child said "yes" saying "well you cant have one".
if being friendly to boys has them labelling you a slag then maybe it's not worth being friendly to them. Either way you may be sending the wrong signals through your body language and the way you say things so keep a close eye on how people react to you and make your real feelings clear and explicit.
friendly flirting between the sexes is normal in life as an adult but teenage boys have boners half the time and take things unrealistically optimistically. any rebuff of an unwelcome advance could lead to them bad mouthing you to make themselves look good.
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