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writes:I am feeling so hurt and confused. I have grown to love someone that does not love me. He says he does but I don’t think that is the case. We were supposed to meet yesterday but he never called. I ended up calling him twice and sending him a message and it is 2 the following day and he still has not contact me. I am sooooooo hurt and don’t know what to say. I feel rejected and worthless cause he does not even take the time to apologise. His action has hurt me so much but I love him and really do not want to lose him since we have been together for 4 months. How do I explain to him that he really was bad towards me but somehow not sound like a nag and end up pushing him away.I am so unlucky in love it is not even funny. I always select guys who end up using me and finally when I find someone who is not financially dependant and does not want to benefit from me he hurts me anyway. The sad fact is they all end up hurting me but considering that I feel he is my equal I know I am crazy to let him get away. I am 32, love children and my patient wait has grown into aggravated anticipation for my future family. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 October 2007): Why are you chasing after this guy who really couldnt give a sh*t???? You deserve to be with someone caring and loving so why this bloke? What has he got that so attracts him to you? Just cut your loses and walk away. He may even get in touch with you once you give up chasing after him. Have some self esteem and respect and walk away and stay away. He sounds a right pig.
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reader, Tommy7  +, writes (9 October 2007):
You are picking the wrong kind of guys. Think what attracts you to these kinds of guys. Try to learn from your mistakes. Do you change your attitude after you start getting close to a guy? I say it is time to start over and make a better choice.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (9 October 2007):
 As to this particular man, he has been rude and uncaring. I wouldn't try to be in touch with him, if I were you. Let him miss out on you.
As to the general pattern of the men who approach you, maybe you have difficulty making yourself understood or "selling" yourself. And, I'm sure the men who have come to you have picked up on some insecurities of yours and use them to their advantage.
You're not alone in this. Devote one afternoon to really thinking about how your relationships have gone wrong, and why. Find what's wrong with YOU, not them, and improve on it.
And, above all, be happy. Your time will come.
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