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Should I move on to this new girl?

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Question - (9 October 2007) 3 Answers - (Newest, 12 October 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, *iddygiddyfreak writes:

hey. I'm natalie and i'm lesbain right, i split up from my girlfriend a couple of months ago because she cheated on me. Ever since we've been working on getting back together. We're great together we've been intimate and everything but, she still won't get back with me. She said to me a couple days ago that the next time she see's me she wants to get back togther but she said that the last time. And still were not together.

Recently, i've been talking to this girl, i won't say her name, but i think i'm really falling for her. She's not the prettiest girl in the world but that's not all that matters. I told her last night that i think i've fallen for her and she said the same thing. I really like this other girl but i still love my ex.. I don't no what to do because i think my ex is playing me like a fool but i still love her, but i'm falling for this other girl.

My friend says that i should forget about my ex and get with this other girl. I don't wanna hurt my ex though nor this other girl. I just don't no what to do. I know i'm gonna have to let one of them down. But which one...? I'm so confused as to wether to make another go of it with my ex, or try something new...? Help me someone...?? xx

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (12 October 2007):

i think you should just move on.

your ex cheated on you if will never be the same.

you will get back togther and break up and it will happen again and again move on now before you get into the breaking up and getting back together a million times.

ive been there and i reget it

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A male reader, Ozsong Australia +, writes (9 October 2007):

Ozsong agony auntMoving on isnt the easiest way but it seems that you need to get closure one way or the other, tell your ex, let her know that if she cant commit, then you will.... to someone else.....

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A female reader, keilie Trinidad and Tobago +, writes (9 October 2007):

you should folow your heart but if it was me i would start a fresh with the new girl cause it seems to me like youe ex is gonna break your heart many times.

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