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writes:Hi there... ive been with my boyfriend for three months now and everything is fantastic. He actually told me for the first time that he loved me the other day. We got chatting about bedroom antics and he said that even though he doesnt always reach climax he still enjoys himself. This has really bothered me, am i doing something wrong? It got me thinking about how we are when we do do it and i seem to be the one expressing myself and he doesnt make a sound or anything. What on earth am i doing wrong? How can i satisfy him? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 October 2007): he wasnt complaining as he? no! he was just making conversation (not exactly but you get the idea). he says it still satisfies him. its alway the plesure that satisfies him, he may well just enjoy the intimacy of sex.
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reader, lily lousia +, writes (9 October 2007):
 hi there,
I dont think you need to worry yourself over this, being vocal tends to be more of a woman thing, and not all men need to climax everytime they make love to be satisfied.
If you have a man thats worth anything, then he will be more than satisfied by knowing that he has helped you to reach a climax than getting there himself. Enjoy him,they are few and far between.
YOU are doing nothing wrong, My guess is your man is very happy and more satisfied than you think with your sex life.
take care
Lily
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reader, Ozsong  +, writes (9 October 2007):
 it sounds like you are satisfying him, we are all different. I dont always climax with my girl, we do it 6 or 8 times over a weekend and I just dont have the juice to reach climax all of the time.
I am pretty vocal, my girlfriend isnt.... we are all different, dont make the mistake of thinking that you need to try harder, if he has told you he loves you, then, He does and he is satisfied.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 October 2007): you are doing noting wrong. he just says the wrong things
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