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He's a cheating liar, do I talk to her?

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Question - (9 October 2007) 4 Answers - (Newest, 9 October 2007)
A female age 36-40, anonymous writes:

I need advice my boyfriend has cheated many times. The last time he said he was ready to be all about me. So part of the deal was for him not to talk to any females and I see that he has texed a girl who he just meet before he got caught. They known each other a few weeks and he's not suppose to talk to her but its been like 2 differnt days they texed each other one he said he was telling her he can't talk to her no more and I told him he should have told be about it...I made a big deal and said next time tell me so I don't think anything and its been 3 days and he did it again. Should I call the girl and ask what's going on cause he will just lie!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (9 October 2007):

I don't think you feel very highly about yourself, that you should accept such a lowly and meaningless relationship. He has probably really damaged you psycholoigcally so you will always expect this and find it extremely hard to trust anyone again. My heart goes out to you, please value yourself enough to get out.

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A male reader, Tommy7 United States +, writes (9 October 2007):

Your guy is set in his ways. He's not going to change. You deserve better than him. Dump him and find a more faithful guy.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (9 October 2007):

Sure, call her if you like. I'm sure you won't like what she tells you.

But regardless of her answer, I suggest you dump your boyfriend. He isn't loyal and he has no respect for your comfort.

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A female reader, redsox07 United States +, writes (9 October 2007):

stop wasting your time with him. you deserve a boyfriend who wont put you through this hurtful behavior

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