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anonymous
writes: im miserable. its as simple as that. these days i cant see any meaning in life.all i can think about is how horrible i am. im fat, small(ish), ugly, all i do is homework and there's not one girl in the school who can actually say they like me. they dont. i want to go for exercise to lose weight (this is what depresses me the most) but my work holds me up so much. my school work is rapidly dropping and ive never had a gf. all my friends undermine me by saying "if you can get a girl friend then i can anyday". its true as well. they have gfs and i dont. theres even someone i fancy in my class but she is just sypathetic to me. What am i doing wrong?
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reader, Love_is_all_youu_need  +, writes (9 October 2007):
 Oh Dear...You seem a little down!
Listen, Don't worry about the girlfriend thing! Sure, you can feel a little left out at times if all your friends have one. But what is the point? Isn't education the most important thing right now...I'm sure you agree! I'm not sure how old you are but you're soon gonna be out of school...start college - why not wait to get a girlfriend then? Concentrate on exams, don't worry what others think of you - they'll be the ones who'll finish in a dead-end job. You're gonna be the successful one if you keep up with the hard work and not letting distractions get the better of you!
As for your appearance...That you also seem to be paranoid about! Don't ever say your ugly; Because although no-one can be perfect, everyone is beautiful! Look in the mirror, admire your best features - perhaps a new hairstyle may give you a boost, or if you have acne (as many boys do at this age) then use some cream from chemist to clear those impurities! For your weight...well being overweight is better than being a skinny twig eh? But as you say, if you feel you need to lose some weight...then confide in your doctor he'll give you the right advice on diets, exercise etc. Or you could surf the web for some tips - up to you!
I really really hope i've helped! So turn that frown upside down - And be happy :) xxx
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reader, baybee-x-sparkii +, writes (9 October 2007):
 try and think on the bright side i no it sounds like a cliche, but try and think of what your good at, or your best feature [because trust me there is something in everyone]. i think then you need to make new friends, if they are undermining you like this they are not worth it. concentrate on your school work, make sure that is sorted and then see if this girl is really worth it, if you like her, make friends with her, get to know her and see how it goes....
your not doing anything wrong....
if you need to talk email me
sparkii xxx
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