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writes:i feel totally stuck in a rut Im 24 and dont have that many friends but the ones i do have seem to be too busy to do stuff at the moment My bf works a lot so see him once or twice a week I have hobbies but feel stuck in life at the min Maybe i just need a night out but no one i know is up for goin out and i feel really fed up I dont make friends easy I dont wanna seem selfish but i feel really down Reply to this Question
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reader, Tommy7  +, writes (10 October 2007):
Why not spend some time surfing the net?
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reader, BluEyezcryin +, writes (10 October 2007):
Hey, i dont have advice for you but they say misery loves company and i can relate to you.I'm 26 and all my girfriends are married. My boyfriend lives almost 2 hours away so i only see him 2 days a week. I feel like i dont have a life sometimes. i get depressed about it.. plus, i feel like my boyfriend and i are never getting married but i cant break it off b/c at least he is someone to hang out with. sux, i know
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reader, Sweet-thing +, writes (9 October 2007):
 Have you thought about taking up a hobby or pursuing some classes that interest you? I went through a slump like that when I was about your age, and so I took up art classes and loved it! Not only had I always wanted to do that, but it gave me a creative outlet and kept me from feeling like my life ws in a slump. I have since learned that I am the type of person who needs to constantly be challenging myself, or doing different things. You may be the same way too. Especially since your friends are busy doing their own thing, my friends had all moved away, but I found new friends once I started taking art classes, and it opened a whole new avenue of things to do, and people to enjoy. Even if you never become a Picasso, you can still experiment. A few years after that, I became interested in learning guitar, and sometime after that, I got interested in cycling and doing kick boxing. I just think that life can become very stagnant if we don't continue to learn new things, and grow as a person. Plus it makes you more interesting to talk to when you've experienced many things in your life. You can relate to a larger group of individuals, and have interesting things to contribute in conversation. I wish you the best!
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