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writes:help! i have been with my patner since feb and in july after spending a week together we decided to move in together, the sex has been fantasic untill the last 2 weeks. he just doesnt seem to want to be intimate with me he kisses and cuddles me and tells me he loves me. i have asked him why but he just says we are fine but i have a nagging feeling and dont know what to do. i need to feel wanted. Reply to this Question
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reader, flower girl +, writes (9 October 2007):
 What are the other areas of both your lives like at the moment, because stress can cause people to lose their sex drive, does he seem alright in himself at the moment or is he a little low.
It could also be just one of those things as it is quite common for young men to lose their sex drive for a while at some point.
Take care.xx.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 October 2007): Sounds like he has got comfortable, trouble is sometimes this makes men lazy, when it comes to love. I dont think you need to worry about him cheating if there are no other signs. Perhaps you could sit him down and tell him if sex is off the cards after only 8 months something isnt right, new couples are normally in honeymoon period for at least a year to eighteen months. Im sure if you explain that you need to feel desired he will be more than happy to comply.
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