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30-35,
*lliehoff
writes:So basically, My best guy friend and i have done everything with eachother (when we were drunk only)except for have sex.(we're both still virgins).but now he never calls me,and i dont know if im just being paranoid,or what.Maybe he's just really busy with school.I dont know how to get him out of my mind!!! Being a teenager sucks, stupid feelings. He says he's too busy to hang out with me, and I know thats mostly true, but its still driving me crazy. I dont want to call him, i want him to want to call me but he's not calling!! and waiting for him to call is driving me insane!!! what do i do to get my mind off of it???
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reader, Kept Women +, writes (21 October 2007):
 It seems something or someone has pulled him away... You have to let life take it's course and keep in mind that your a wonderful persons so if someone don't want to spend time with you or even call you then it's there lost not yours. Be strong - be the bigger person... You have to much pride to allow this to bother you... You're above that..
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 October 2007): Hunny
Yes being a teenager does suck and I wouldnt want to go through it again, You were hanging around with the same lad for awhile and then it just stopped.
You say your friends but I feel for you this is much more, And the first sign of these feelings for someone is going to get you all in a mess if you dont get busy, How many times did I wait by the phone at your age, Feeling just as you are now miserable.
Hunny its hard you just have to put your mind to it, If in my eyes love your friend cared about you he will phone, But being a lad who can say when ive had 2 boys so I no were im coming from, Its not a bad thing but they just dont think the same sometimes... Stay away from your phone stop wishing for it to ring and get out there with your other mates and start enjoying life, Do what ever it takes to feel like you again and set yourself a goal to get happy sweetheart.
Believe me when I say your wasting your precious time worrying when if this is a true friend of yours he will contact you, Something to learn in life hunny is real friends the true mates in life dont let you down and as you get older you will realise, I do understand how sad you are right now if you need a chat ill listen please dont worry so much get your life back PLEASE TAKE CARE LOVE MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
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reader, I.miss.yooh  +, writes (9 October 2007):
I have been in the same position, waiting for something sucks, so keep yourself occupied, go out with friends, play sport or anything that will keep your mind busy until he does call. But if you think you cant wait any longer, give him a call because he might be waiting for you to call him.
Hope all goes well xxx
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