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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Things feel so complicated. iv met this guy. and i wonder if he likes me. he always hangs around with me if we have spare time for however longhe carrys on with me n play fightim christian n i invited him to my church for a charity concert with gospl singers and he accepted. altho he told me he doesnt like gospl and he doesnt beleive in god and i asked him why does he want to go? and he sed, y are u tryn to change my mind do u no want me to go? n i told him i did and he sed well then he'd go. if i need to get a taxi home, he'l come in it with me to make sure im home safe. doing this means that he needs to pay extra money (where he can get the bus for free from our union to his house) and also means he needs to leave the club when i do. which is quite 'early' for usual tastes. If i ever want to go somewhere or out at night he always says yes.when we go out to clubs n sit together we always end up reli close and he holds my hand and things when dancing.ive only known him a few weeks but i feel so close.i dont know how i feel about him. i love hanging around with him, i love hearing what he has to say, my heart beats so fast around him. id do anything to touch him. im actually really happy just being with him and smiling for no reason.buti have a boyfriend iv been with for 2 years now. he completely adores me but i dnt think i feel the same way. id rather meet this other guy than my boyfriend. when my boyfriends talking im just not interested. We dnt have any common ground at all. im only happy when were together and he touches me and kisses me (sometimes im not reli bothered with kissing him). i feel more grateful to him for being like that with me, than actually loving him. Hes such a wonderful guy.id be afraid to let him go. i dont want to ever hurt him and i do love him but i dnt think its REAL love. i want to protect him and i dnt want him leaving incase someother girl would hurt him also. I at least can look after him. I used to love him so much and adore him. im not sure now. but i regularly go hot and cold most times a month. sumtimes i love him sometimes i dont.im beginin to really see how confusing Love actually is. I dnt think im in love with either of them (but then love needs to grow, i wouldnt no anything about how i genuinly feel about the new guy)but my prefrnce is this new guy.. i dont no what to do? this new guy is a new close friend and i wouldnt want to reck what we have. My current boyfriend was/is (?) my first real love. we're both 18.my questions are - do you think the new guy fancys me? its ovious he likes me... but in what way?What should i do about my current boyfriend?should i stay with my boyfriend and hope this thing with the new guy will pass over?sorry this is so long. please reply soon.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 October 2007): hey girl, i totally get you! im with my boyf 3 yrs and find myself being extra happy with this other guy lets call him 'b' , my boyfriend is amazing, such a good person, even tho we hav had our ups and downs, however, it can take a minor thing from 'b' like a text during the day or 5 minuites with 'b' to make me feel happy however with my boyfriend its like i care for him sooo much, dont want to loose him, but it confuses me, cuz he just isnt 'b'. i guess what i do kno is that 'b' is a player, he has the charm and is proper clever and streetwise, which in some ways its good in many ways these qualites have led him to have numerous relationships with other girls. i kno my boyfriend will be there for me no matter what, im stickin with my man, because that is what committing to someone is all about. however, you are still young tho, sometimes, just sometimes..its ok to live for the moment, follow that wild beat in your heart:)...if your boyfriend isnt for you, then maybe you should let him free to find his girl, and you be with this friend of yours, cuz this friend has shown intrest, however, maybe you need to know fully whether or not he likes you, ask him? if he does..then properly consider your options.. keep us updated x x
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reader, Collaroy  +, writes (10 October 2007):
 You're 18.. time to move on, dump the boyfriend and see what happens with the new guy. Yes he is interested but undoubtedly knows you have a boyfriend already and probably does not want to make a move yet.
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reader, Tommy7  +, writes (10 October 2007):
New guy likes you. Dump bf. Don't cheat bf. Growup.
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