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writes:i am 16 and this might be too long but plz answer my questions i will be veery thankful it will make my life alot better.I have this liquid stuff coming out of my vagina it has been there for as long as i can remember probably before when i started having periods. It is a yellowish brown somtimes and smells bad too along with a clear gell kind. when i have my periods it goes away but come back after my periods. I never had a penis inside my vagina or had any contact with anything like that. I somtimes stimulate my clitorus by rubbing it. I think i have broken my hyphen when i used a tampon i think cause it hurted like hell. My periods are never on time they are always late and now they have started to last a week and last year i had spotting for 1 month but after i took the medican it was ok but m periods are never on time and i have these fluids coming out of me and i fell uncomfortable because i sometimes can smelll it and then crooss my legs tight. I took te medican 4 yeastr infection but didnt work. Now i am offraid if i go to the doctor he might ask me if i had sex and all wrong kind questions so my questions are1. Is it possible to get an STD without having a contact with someones blood, or cum or penis?2. Is it posible tht i might have servical cancer when i had a dildo kind toy t was like a pencil inside my vagina?3.Is it possible tht i might have got an STD just by someone liking ur breast or sucking them?4. Now my periods are very light and almost like spoig 4 more than a week wht can be the reason?I am anemic and i have low iron could tht be a reason as well?5. I somtimes get these small bumps a little pus somtimes it it possible i have an STD or STI?I need reall help this my seem stupid questions but im offraid to ask a doctor or my parents i need help plz help me im taking stress over this 4 more thankk 4 years now and thts why i think i might have HIV?I will be very happyy if anyone can help me through this im always thinking i might die cause i am not getting treated by a doctor soplzzz help me.
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reader, Enzian  +, writes (10 October 2007):
 I'm not a doctor, but I know that even they can not tell you what excatly you have got without seeing you. Only a test can tell what kind of infection you have got und which one would be the right therapy. If you don't want to see a man, see if there is a women gynecologist in your region. Nearly every women go there a few times in their life. The gynecologists are used to see this sort of things and they won't remember you more than anyone else. It's not that embarrassing and the day after you will feel much better, mainly you now know what exactely you have got and how you can get rid off it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 October 2007): thanks guys i feel abit better already u guys have helped alot thanks alot but is there a doctor here who could answer this plz it would help
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reader, CynthiaRenae  +, writes (9 October 2007):
Go see your gynecologist. They are used to these kinds of questions. It's not embarrassing at all. It sounds like you might have some kind of bacterial infection that can be easily cleared up with antibiotics, but you have to see a doctor before getting a hold of those cause you don't want to take the wrong kind. You can tell you mom about it too. I doesn't sound like any type of sexual disease. She doesn't need to know that you've experimented. But you can tell your doctor, they won't tell your parents if you tell them not to.
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reader, Enzian +, writes (9 October 2007):
Hi there
I had something similar so I went so see my gynaecologist.
She made the normal checkup they do and did some swabs. It was a fungal affection. So she gave me some pharmaceuticals and I had to stopp using tampons (What is hard, but seems to work. And even I don't like sanitary towels, its much better for my health). Other things are: I should not go swimming in swimming pools anymore, because it is very likly to get there this infection back from other women through the water. So I only go swimming in the mountain lakes now (or in the see at holidays).
Go to see your gynaecologist. I'm sure it is nothing serious. But things like that can go serious if you don't take the right pharmaceuticals.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 October 2007): Hi, I would have to advise you see your doctor, just in case. I would like to correct a previous comment that sexual disease can only be caught by sexual behaviour, of course some problems are hereditory and can go un noticed, this could mean if either of your parents have contracted something in their past then there is a small possibility you could have it this way.
Usually discharge from a women is whitish or clear so the fact that it is coloured suggests that something may be wrong also it shouldnt smell. It does sound to me like you might have an infection and it is definately worth getting checked. I think that there is no need to worry about HIV and things like that, it is more likely that you might have thrush or something of this nature.
Dont worry, you shouldnt have to show the doctor if thats why you havnt yet been seen. You will have to discribe what it is like though. You may have to have a sample taken by a nurse if they are concerned,it will be tested at a lab to determine the problem.
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reader, love-him  +, writes (9 October 2007):
 Hi babe. You need to really stop stressing out, this isn't good for you or your body. i will answer the numbered questions first,
1. No if you have not had contact with a penis, vagina, cum or blood then you wont have an STI.
2. Cervical cancer is something which is un usual for someone our age (16) to have, i just read 'The only way you can totally protect yourself against HPV is to avoid any sexual activity that includes genital contact' off
www.idph.state.il.us/about/womenshealth/factsheets/cervical.htm
.. that explains you need genital contact (so with a toy i believe it says you are safe.
3. No you cannot get an STI from having your breats licked or sucked
4. It is more than likely because you are anaemic that you have problems with your periods, however you are young, therefore you are not expoected to have a very regular period
5. About the lumps, it could just be that you have thrush.. this is NOT a sexualy transmitted infection, this is bacteria in your vagina which has caused an infection. I suggest going to your doctor so he could do some tests on you, or see a gynecologist, who will do a full STI test on you to ensure you dont have any infections.
http://www.askbootshealth.com/a_to_z/thrush,_vagina
I seriously doubt you have HIV, unless you are a drug user and uses other peoples needles, and/or you have been in contact with sexual intercourse or you gving someone a blow job who is infected with HIV.
I really hope i helped, and wish you the best of luck,
Mail me if you would like to talk x
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reader, XxAngelDust89xX +, writes (9 October 2007):
 Honey, Only a doctor can tell you what your dicharge is, but i seriously doubt you are going to die. OB/GYN's (female doctor) are normally very nice about these things,but if you don't want to ask them, you are going to have to talk to your mother or a nother trusted adult female.
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reader, this_years_love +, writes (9 October 2007):
 one of the best things you can do without seeing a doctor is research. the internet is a great tool BUT avoid unnofficial websites. There are many websites about STD's, and other medical conditions out there. These websites are often associated with an organisation such as the canadian lung assotiation for example (although unrelated). Try google-ing one of your symptoms, or various STD's and etc. and get as much information as you can. although it is not wise to self-diagnose, you may be able to find some positive news or atleast give yourself an idea of what to expect so that when you do see a physician(which i would reccomend 100%) you are less likely to been completely out of the loop and shocked.
i know it can be scary discussing private issues with somebody you barely know but keep in mind doctors deal with this all the time, it is their job and they are LEGALLY required to keep your name and any information to themselves-they can't even tell your parents.
good luck sweety i hope all goes well
xo
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 October 2007): You are obviously very stressed out and thinking of all the worst case scenarios. As a young woman, you need to start seeing a gynocologist and have an examination.
You are going to get lots of answers here that are just going to confuse you more, lots of people like to show they know what something is, when they really don't know, they can't examine you, like you, they are only guessing.
It probably is nothing serious at all, but you need to put your mind at ease and learn more about your body and how to protect yourself against STD's and pregnancy if you should become sexually active (I hope you will wait)
There is no reason to be embarassed about your body or about having an examination by a doctor. A gynocologist specializes in women's reproductive health, and they look at women every day all day and diagnose problems and do routine exams and deliver babies....
Make your appointment today.
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