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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes: Need help wit a friend. Okay my friend likes one of our other friends. The thing is that he's going out with our other friend. She really likes him and all but him and his girlfriend really like eachother. I don't know who to ask him if he does like her wit making things weird. She won't ask him if he likes her for the same reason. He's kinda a big flirt anyways. He always hangs out with a group of girls.(that all like him) He's the guy that every girl wants to date. I see him talking to my friend more than his girlfriend al times. I don't know what to do!! Should I straight up and ask him if he likes her or will he lie?? What to do??
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reader, Tommy7 +, writes (9 October 2007):
Why waste time on a player like him? You will not become more than a fling to him. Stay away.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 October 2007): Here's the thing, if your friend has a girlfriend and they care about each other then your other friend shouldn't interfere. He's a flirt, but he probably would find it awkward that someone who is not his girlfriend is hitting on him like that. If your friend tells him how she feels then there will be major drama and your friend will probably end up getting hurt. my advice: Dont approach him, atleast not right now. Think about it: he will have to make a choice between his girlfriend and your friend. It will put all of you in an uncomfortable position and someone will end up feeling terrible. Your friend should find someone else, because guys like that are usually unpredicatable, and do you really want teh drama?
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