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writes:I feel rejected by my parents for conflicts i had with them in past. Now i fear that other people would do the same, as may be i was the person who had something wrong with himself, and that parents are always right. I am scared of developing any intimacy with people or trusting them as i consider all to be the same. Please advice on how to get out of this problem. Reply to this Question
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reader, Tommy7  +, writes (9 October 2007):
Just move on with your parents as if nothing had happened. Be close with them and ask their advice. Tell them you will always love them no matter what. I bet they will forgive you anything.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 October 2007): Hiya, you leave this very wide open, could you go into detail?
If its the usual conflicts, we all have them. Some of us worse than others, Im sure that your parents wouldnt rejct you. What happened between you that makes you fear intimacy? I'll tell you something. Time is a healer. I had conflict with my parents and my dad didnt speak to me for almost 5 years, we are getting there now, he can actually bare to be in the same room as me. Take small steps to fix things.
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