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writes:i need help.This is going to sound like a soap opera but this is it. ok a guy from work who are hung out with sometimes has broke up with his girlfriend. So now the guy whats to date me and ex girlfriend wants to date my ex (which to be honest im greatful for as he still fancies me.). weird right? we went on out date last weekend and i enjoyed his company we laughed a joked and i kissed him good night. but it doesn't feel right when he was with his girlfriend and we used to flirt i knew it meant nothing but now that i have a chance it didn't feel right and he keeps texting normally when i like someone i can't wait to see them and i like getting textes from them but with him its like oh god. i love being his friend but being in a relationships frightens me and i don't think im ready. and just the thought of a relationship makes me feel sick. i don't know how i am going to tell him that i really don't actually want a relationship with him just want to be friends but we kissed and he keeps telling me he loves me and i feel so bad. and don't tell me wait to see what happens because i sometimes dread meeting up with him as well. please help me
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reader, kenny +, writes (9 October 2007):
 I feel that you best option here is to be brutally honest with him with how you are feeling. It sounds like he does like you alot so tell him sooner rather than later, the longer you leave it the harder it will get. Just tell him you sorry, you think he is a great guy, but at his point in your life you are not ready to persue a relationship.
All the best & good luck x
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 October 2007): do you like him? go with your heart. if you like him, well quite frankly you should stuff everyone else.
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