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writes:i want to be seen for myself and not eye candy! hi everyone sorry to just bombarde you with questions but i have a problem again. its like this mmkay, well i think i have a great personality but no matter what i always get told about my butt and all this other stuff! i know boys are at that age but is it possible to be seen for being a decent person with a welcoming personality, without the other stuff!??! do i ust ignore this? i want a good boyfriend but no matter who it is i always get paranoid they only want wit me for that one reason!help pleasexoxo Reply to this Question
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reader, dont_worry +, writes (10 October 2007):
 Dont be paranoid, you will just have to live with it, because guys are like that... personality counts 20% and physics count 80%, but dont worry when you get into a serious relationship then, thats when your true self is going to count (: so right know ignore all this comments because boys are like that and they will not change, good luck =)
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (10 October 2007):
 Amen, rythmandblues2.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 October 2007): Hi Honey, sorry to say you are at a tough age...most boys do want you for only one thing, and some are not into girls at all yet, it is a geeky, awkward age for them and girls mature faster than boys at this age, so no wonder you find their attention annoying and unwelcome in that they are being rude to you, that is right rude.
You teach people how to treat you..if some boy comments on your butt, stop in your tracks and say something along these lines, look, I don't know who you think you are, but I don't like you making comments about my body, I don't make comments about the size of your big fat head, do I? And then walk off, say nothing more about it, don't giggle or laugh, and they will take you seriously and you will have risen a notch in the respect category. Don't be tempted to be another stupid girl.....don't hide your brilliance, your academic prowess, or your interests and passions...BE who you are and not what you think guys or other girls want you to be, and you will see that you will know that people are liking you for you and appreciating your honesty and integrity.
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