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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I recently have started to really like my best friends ex. When they went out i really got on well with him and i was happy for them both. When they broke up I was there for both of them. But over the last few weeks I started developing feelings I shouldnt. Ive known my best friend 6 years and I wouldnt do anything to hurt her. I was thinking about telling her, however she would say shes happy for me but inside really she would be in denial. This is a first person in a long time that i've liked this much. I dont know what to do. Help!!!!
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reader, jodie +, writes (9 October 2007):
 just tell ask ur friends firstly-
duz she like him still
2mdly- wud she be ok if anythin happened with him and you
then if she says she dont care bwt him no more and she wudnt be bovered then just say i av got fellings for him and hope ucan understand because u are my bezzy nd i luv u so so so so much nd i have neva felt this way 2 words (boys name) than i eva have be4
HOPEFULLY SHE'LL UNDERSTAND
GDLUCK XXXXXXXXXX
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 October 2007): I wouldnt like it if one of my friends dated an ex of mine. I just would not do it to them. Please think carefully before you go down that path. Blokes come and go but friends stay forever.
take care
xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 October 2007): I think that you shuld tell her that you have feelings for him, because there is no point in keeping secrets, especcially from someone so close to you. How can you stay mates with her if you have this secret always pulling you down? You have to be completly honest, that's the only way, and if she takes it badly, atleast then you wuld know that you have done the right thingxxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 October 2007): You should never date a friends ex. It is just wrong. Then questions can arise as to your motive while they were together etc. bad idea! If you care about your friend and value your friendship I think that it is a bad idea. If you didnt have the feelings for him then and do now...you can help it. Consider him or her off limits and move on.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 October 2007): If she was really her friend she wouldn't let a boy come between you guys..it's just a boy those come and go.. friendships are forever nomatter what
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