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writes:Im losing my virginity next saturday with my long term partner. We have everything ready. My mates hosue will be free so we're using hers. She said she'd leave the master bedroom done up perfect for uslike silk sheets, dimmer lights, oils, slow songs, the works ! Im really excited and so is he, but what should i be prepared for, i heard sex feels amazing, so any tips ? Also what should i expect ? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 November 2007): its honestly so wonderful if youre with the right person. i lost mine this weekend and it was truly AMAZING!!
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reader, xapathyxrebornx +, writes (16 October 2007):
 Woo hun yay well through through babe.
Okay what to expect...
Sex is different for everyone. The first time hurts a little bit and if your hymen isn't already broken (it can already be broen due to sports like horseriding) there may be some bleeding.. and that is perfectly natural =D
Relax take things alowly and make it a night to remember.
AN dhun...I do suggest you wear a condom - better safe then sorry.
Mail me if you need to ask anythng else
~Rosanna x
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reader, Tommy7  +, writes (11 October 2007):
Don't expect anything just go with it and relax and enjoy it. Tell him the things that feel best to you. Try out his suggestions. It takes several lovemaking sessions for newbees to really get the most out of it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 October 2007): I think it is fantastic that your first time is so thought through, that doesnt happen often.
Best advice would be not to expect anything, then if its great then it will be a bonus, if not you wont be too dissapointed.
Its unlikely that your first time will be amazing as you dont know what to expect and its the getting to know what each other like and experimenting that makes sex great. I hope though, that with the scene set it will be very enjoyable, make sure you use protection. Take care x
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reader, love-him +, writes (9 October 2007):
 Hi babe, well sex does feel really good, however the first time, will more than likely hurt a little bit. I suggest using a lot of lubrication as it will reduce the pain. That sounds great with the sheets and the music, have the music on low also. Make sure you both are relaxed and maybe have some candles. And dont forget to use a condom =] have fun, i hope i helped,
Mail me if you would like to talk x
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 October 2007): Honey, first things first : Have both of u gone for an HIV tests? If not I'm sorry to let you know that u might be heading for a not so nice disease. If yes Brilliant cos u both know each others status. Second : unless you are prepared to raise that baby, USE A CONDOM!!! take precautions and you will not be sorry. Gud Luck
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reader, this_years_love  +, writes (9 October 2007):
 Just be sure you are really ready!!
make sure you are safe (i can't stress this enough...use a condom)
and understand that the first time usually doesn't feel so amazing and is a fair bit painful...not to scare you though!
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