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writes: Can someone tell me what happened? I met a guy who works in the fitness center at my college. I was getting my id renewed and he took my picture and we chatted a little and he seemed like a nice person and very friendly, funny, and cool. He gave me his business card and said if I was interested maybe we could hang out, that if I liked, I could send him an email or give him a call. I felt good about him and our convo. so I said sure. About 2 days later I sent him an email asking how he was doing and if he was able to catch a show that was on campus. $ or 5 more days passed and I didn't get any response from him so I decided to give him a call. Now literally, he sounded soooo out of it. I don't know what happened to this seemingly articulate, gregarious, cool guy I talked to before because he sounded, right from the get-go, completely bored. I could hardly get him to talk! I felt I was initiating every topic and the conversation was like pulling teeth from a horse. I could scarcley believe it. Yet, I tried talking to him and even asked him if it was a bad time to talk but he said no, that he was just watching tv and bored. Was it me? I think his phone died or ran out of battery or we had a dropped call or something because while I was asking him a question, it just cut off. I called him back and got his voicemail. I just thought the whole thing was so supremely rude and I couldn't believe he didn't call me back a few minutes after it happened or even a day after it happened. I left him a message saying I think we got cut off. Well, now you know my number so give me a call sometime. So far he hasn't. Did I do something? I just can't figure out what was wrong with him. If he wasn't interested why did he bother giving me his card and offering himself? I'm really boggled, should I call him back and ask what happened? Write him an email? Even bother trying to talk to him again? Please help Reply to this Question
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reader, Tommy7  +, writes (11 October 2007):
Sorry girl, I was not trying to be obnoxious. I was trying to be cute and say use your head and not your passion.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 October 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionUse my brain? Hello, I wasn't in the wrong here--but I guess that is a typical answer from a guy, but nuts to you. Thanks to the other two serious answers: actually he did call me back 2 days later. I realized one night I had a voicemail and it was him saying his battery ran out and he hoped to talk to me again. I don't know if I will though--he seemed completely zombie-like, so I think I'll take the one girls' advice about showing up the gym looking really hot, lol, no. I'll leave him be, but thanks for the advice. Appreciate it.
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reader, Tommy7 +, writes (9 October 2007):
Doesn't sound like a guy you should waste your time on. Use your brain.
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reader, towapa  +, writes (9 October 2007):
 I heard that lads are crap on the phone, anyway. It's because they don't enjoy it. Other than that, though, it was damn right rude of him not to explain what happen when the phone got cut off! I'm sorry, but he doesn't seem very interested, and i think you should find someone else who is. xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 October 2007): sweetie im so so sorry to break it to you but this guy seems like a total jerk.some guys are real good at acting how girls want them to, just to get them in the bedroom.
maybe he has a girlfriend, or maybe he just has a really busy schedule and wa genuinley busy, but if i was you i wuld forget him and find someone worth bothering with.
Alternativley,if you really cant stop thinking about him, you could text him off a friends phone and say whos this?if he text back then you know there is nothing wrong with his phone. Dont lt him know its you though.dont text, call or email him.it will seem obsessive. Another thing u could do is go back to thr gym looking really hot and just ignore him.or turn up with a hot guy pal to make him realise what hes missed out on.but honey ur better than that jerk i promise.xxx
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