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writes:help me!!!!!!!!!!!i am 17 and been going out with my boyfriend for three years he is now 19. recently i really cant stick him. when he comes round i just cant even look at him or even speak to him, it has also affected the bedroom life all i want to do is sleep. but i cant see my life with out him can u help me please x x Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 October 2007): I think you know yourself that this really is over. If you feel like that then where do you go from here? Ths future looks grim. Get out now and have some fun. You shouldnt be feeling like this at your age. I think you need to end it now and save him and yourself a lot of pain.
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reader, Sugarbuns  +, writes (9 October 2007):
 It's probably time to end this relationship and give yourself a chance to see what else is out there. You're awfully young to be tied to the same young man for 3 years. As you have grown up, you have simply outgrown your need for this guy. Rarely do I ever see a woman be attracted to the same kind of guy, at 17, that she may have been attracted to at 14. Your taste is going to change as you grow up. You're too young to be in a serious relationship with anyone at 14, or at 17. What you're clinging to is the security factor. You're so used to being with someone, the thought of being on your own, seems frightening at first. Take baby-steps. You're going to be an adult soon and there will be alot of exciting chances for you to meet other people (men) so keep your options open for awhile. Don't commit to anyone until you are much older and know what you want in a mate. Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 October 2007): You may be mentally separating from him, it is still possible to care deeply and not want to hurt him, but you probably just need to move on. Try a break of a couple of weeks, if you feel relieved you will have an answer. If you miss him that will be fine too. He has been a part of your life for a long time, it is always difficult to let people that you have known a long time go.
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