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writes:Hey,Ok so here is my problem... Ok so I was just wondering what the law is on younger girls dating older guys... Because I am 15 going on 16 and might be dating a 29 year old very soon... I'm not questioning whether it's normal cuz I don't care I love him and he loves me.... Reply to this Question
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reader, Dizmal +, writes (25 November 2009):
Dizmal is verified as being by the original poster of the question haha it's ok i understand people thinking all he wants is sex and I thank everyone that answers this question... i really appretiate all the time you all have put into your answers...
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reader, BadderzGirl  +, writes (25 November 2009):
The law is that no one under teh age of sixteen is allowed to engage in sexual acts and were you to do this now, this guy would go to jail if people were to find out.
Although, since your living in America, it varies from state to state, check out this link and check the chart on it:
http://www.avert.org/age-of-consent.htm
And just a little tip (although I'm sure you'll do this anyway) : Don't let anyone know sweetie. You'll get so much flack for it
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reader, Dizmal +, writes (25 November 2009):
Dizmal is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThe thing is q1605 were not gonna have sex till I'm of age and the question was what is the law on a younger girl dating a older guy
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reader, CheeZecurlyQ89 +, writes (25 November 2009):
I can't talk much about age. No, I have never had quite that large of a gap, but I'm sixteen and my boyfriend is 20. I'm turning 17 next month and he was the first guy I ever dated (two years ago) but a lot changed in our relationship.
When we began dating two years ago I was innocent and really only wanted a hot boyfriend to flaunt around. But we started dating and I completely fell in love. He took my virginity and changed me so much. After only three months he deemed me too young to date and left. I didn't see him for a year and a half after that. I was left angry and confused and absolutely heart broken.
Even though I still dated afterwords, it was never the same. I dated safe guys that would never break my heart and wanted complete control in the relationship. As you can imagine, that never really worked out.
Only a couple of months ago we started talking again and now we're dating again. It took so much to trust him again, and I know that if he ever leaves me again I'll be even worse off than before.
I guess what I'm trying to say is: I know you love him, but I'd feel it out for a bit, see where its going and how you two will work together. It seems like everything will be fantastic now, but later everything changes. Yes, I got my love back, but most people dont. He changed me so much and sometimes I wonder where I'd be if we'd never dated. Just think about it.
By the way, the law changes in every state, what state are you in? I know in New Hampshire the legal age of consent is 16 (but only if ur bf is 20 or younger). And California is 18. It changes from state to state. Just let me know the state and I'll tell you.
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reader, Dizmal +, writes (25 November 2009):
Dizmal is verified as being by the original poster of the questionmy mom trusts him cuz he's been a family friend 4ever and my brother and his wife are the same age gap....
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (25 November 2009):
 What do your parents say about your dating this grown man?
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