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reader, anonymous, writes (29 November 2009): if you caught him doing the same thing with your best friend...what would you say?
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reader, mr motivator  +, writes (28 November 2009):
that was definately sex and im sure as much aas hes telling you it wasnt he is sccreaming from the high hills to his mates that it was
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reader, shortone1  +, writes (27 November 2009):
 yea i've heard that before, but i think it is considered sex and it is considered a BJ if your mouth is around his penis.
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reader, dairyqueen  +, writes (26 November 2009):
dairyqueen is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhe doesn't consider it sex b/c there was no endpoint reached and there was no 'action' going on. he also doesn't consider it a bj unless he ejaculates.
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reader, ffogalilly +, writes (25 November 2009):
No, you're not a virgin anymore, welcome to the club....
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reader, BlondeBabe x +, writes (25 November 2009):
 Yeah its considered sex since he did actually penetrate you. Yeah agreed sounds like you have had really lousy first time.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (25 November 2009):
 I'm with baddog, lousy sex is still sex and you, Babycakes, are no longer a virgin. I hope you used protection.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 November 2009): That was sex to the core. You are no longer a virgin baby!
You need to protect yourself next time though, because there is something called pre-ejaculation which the man has when excited. This could lead to pregnancy. A cum is a cum regardless of how intense or not.
During foreplay with your bf....check his penis...you will see what I mean. Goodluck!
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reader, LazyGuy  +, writes (25 November 2009):
 What exactly would you consider it takes to no longer be a virgin?
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reader, madlib +, writes (25 November 2009):
Everybody defines sex differently these days...virginity is based textbook wise on penile penetration..which he did...he might nothave moved around but he still did the textbook version...in the movies they imply it can be bloody, but that is just the hymen being broken and these days girls break it playing sports when they are 12-13, riding bikes, or by insertng their first tampon....I say sex is when you physically arouse the person you are with to a degree that just kissing and rubbing don't do justice...blowjobs, going down on each other, penetration, fingering...it's all sex honey-look at it this way...if your boyfriend stuck his penis in some other girl but didn't move around, would you say he didn't have sex with her?!
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reader, shortone1 +, writes (25 November 2009):
i would say it was sex. due to the fact it was intercourse. and you can not be a virgin if the male stuck his penis in your vagina.
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reader, baddogbj  +, writes (25 November 2009):
 That's sex. Doesn't sound like very good sex but it is sex and no, technically, your not a virgin - but why would that matter?
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reader, Frenzotic +, writes (25 November 2009):
 Hey!
He entered you so no you're no longer a virgin. It doesn't matter if there was no humping, thrusting etc
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