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writes:I am a 31 year old woman and a newlywed school teacher. My husband teaches at the same school. My situation is that my husband does not like me to wear a bra. At nights and on weekends, he does not want to see me in a bra. During the entire spring break a couple of weeks back, he had me go braless for the entire week. The only time he wants me to "suit up" is at work. He's already saying he can't wait until summer break.I am not exactly flat chested and am not a teenager. So, I have been worried that the lack of support would cause my breasts to sag. Fortunately, I have not seen any evidence of that. I am still high and firm. I can put a band aid under each breasts and still see the band-aid. Still, can nature still be so kind if I do the 24/7 thing over the summer that my husband has eluded to?
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (4 April 2011):
 I don't think what a MAN wants a woman to do with her body is his choice unless SHE wants it too.IF you don't want to wear a bra, then don't. You will sag with or without one when you are meant to sag... pregancy and nursing will help that along big tgime...Personally there are lots of things my man would want me to do that I don't want to do and I just say NO....IF you can't tell him NO about your body what does that say?
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (4 April 2011):
 Gravity is gravity, you'll end up sagging sooner or later whether you wear a bra or not. But I think that your choice of underwear should be entirely up to you...and at all times. I know! Tell your husband you want him to wear a jock strap all the time on the weekends and vacations...see how that flies.
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reader, person12345 +, writes (4 April 2011):
 Well I think the question is whether you want to wear a bra or not. I think a lot of guys like the way women look without a bra because it leaves less to the imagination. But you shouldn't have to be uncomfortable or worried just to be his eye candy. If you want to wear a bra, it's OK to leave some mystery. Just tell him he'll have to wait until you're actually naked to see them.
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reader, Battista  +, writes (4 April 2011):
For me, the question is whether YOU want to go without a bra. I have to say that I would imagine the effects of not wearing a bra would probably not become evident for a while yet, so I would fear you might be storing up trouble for the future if you did this too much. The whole summer break seems like a long time to me if you are intending to do any sort of sports or physical activity. If you go running, for example, on your time off, not wearing a bra isn't a good idea.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 April 2011): Climb stairs and steep hills to keep things firm and perky, and wear a bra at all times that you can, else you will soon earn yourself a pair of belly-warmers!
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