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writes:ok there is this guy i can't stop thinking about. He is a family friend. We were out at a bar friday night with my family and ended up at a mutual friends house after, someone we didn't know asked if i was his wife and i said no, as he was saying yes. people are telling me the truth comes out when people have been drinking. so what is he saying? we went our separate ways and i went to work the next day not expecting to talk to him until i see him somewhere or if we comment on a fb status. he text me out of the blue late that morning asking how work was and we text back and forth for a couple hours, not about anything special. but then didn't talk the rest of the day. Well my cousin text me saying she heard we hooked up friday night. so i asked him where she would of got that and he said "it was probably because my cousins saw us leave the house at the same time assuming we went home together. thats funny" okay, what does he mean by thats funny?? sorry its so long, im just really confused and like him a lot!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 June 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionok the followin tuesday i text him to see if he wanted to come out with us he said maybe..iv heard that b4 n he hasnt but he showed up. We laughed drank went to my cousins after he told me his sister is movin back then id get the chance to get to know her. He stayed there i left for work. I texted him that next day n told him that i liked him but if he didnt feel the same way that i still wanted to b able to b friends. He ignore my text n we didnt talked until yesterday we both showed up for a town event. We talked about that night n said we need to do it again n i told him he should go to wisconsin with me for packers training camp. He said ya thatd be fun to text him when n to remind him. then he had to go.
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reader, dirtball +, writes (28 April 2011):
 That's something at least. I'd keep it casual, "Hi, how have you been?" Not much else. If the conversation starts to flow, then suggest getting together sometime and see how he reacts.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 April 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionso after a week of nothing from him, he commented on a fb status, or he hasn't completely forgotten about me? i haven't tried to text him to do anything or anything. should i text him tonight and ask him whats up or whatever? i have a lot of feelings for him, sorry for all this
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reader, dirtball +, writes (25 April 2011):
He didn't know how to respond, because something like that does NOT belong in a text. It's hard to say if you ruined your chances or not, but if he likes you, then you didn't. Things will likely be a bit awkward the next time you see him though.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 April 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni couldnt get myself to do it. i could barely text him. and now i can't get him to talk to me, i invited him to a cook out, but no answers. he acted like he liked me but then ignores my text..did i ruin my chance?
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reader, dirtball +, writes (23 April 2011):
*sigh*
That's not something you text the first time you tell someone. You TELL them...
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 April 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni texted him last night and told him how i felt. but he never texted me back...
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reader, dirtball +, writes (21 April 2011):
That implies he wants you to meet her, which is a good sign.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 April 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionok what bout him telling me that his sister is moving back and so then ill get to know her? but i will try that eye contact and touching his arm, i tried not to look at him the other night because i didn't want it to seem weird or whatever
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reader, dirtball +, writes (21 April 2011):
I was referring to the suggestions I gave for asking him about his feelings for you. One was an indirect method: dropping hints and making a joke about the wife comment. The other was direct: asking him out on a date.
Since you say you're shy, you'll probably be more comfortable with an indirect approach. A couple of things you can do to test him would be breaking the touch barrier. Touch his arm, or leg while he's talking to you. Maintain eye contact and be casual about it. See how he responds. Basically, unless he pulls away, it's a good sign. I'd also suggest making a joke about how it feels like you're being chaperoned because you two always get together with your family. This is a subtle yet direct hint that you'd like some ALONE time with him. ;) He'll pick up on it if he's smart and interested.
Generally, if other people notice an attraction, it's because it's quite obvious. Chances are that they are right, and he's interested in you. Show him you're interested too.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 April 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhe is 25. and to dirtball, my aunt said that last night,we went out again with friends. that he likes me to and that he was showing it, i really didn't see anything. what do you mean direct and indirect? i am a very shy girl
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (19 April 2011):
 I'm just curious, how old is this guy?
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reader, dirtball +, writes (19 April 2011):
You know how when you want something, you read into every little thing about it instead of doing what you should? You're there.If you really like him, it seems like he's interested too. Drop him a hint about wanting to get together in a proper manner if he's going to tell people you're his wife. Make it a joke but a hint at the same time. Hopefully he picks up on it. Otherwise, you could always just suggest you two get together and see what happens. Do you prefer direct, or indirect?
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