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writes: been with my boyfriend for 3 years nearly, we went out friday and had a fight. saturday we were absolutely fine and had the best sex all day long. sunday night and monday he started to act distant and now hes ended it on tuesday, we live together but i just left when he sent the message saying he wasnt happy with me and am staying with my parents. im just so confused...hes texted a few times one saying 'are you coming home tonight' another saying 'are you drunk' and one this morning saying 'are you ok' iv ignored them all... but i dont know what to make of this all.... were both in our early 20s, i feel so sad
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reader, NuttyGooner  +, writes (1 March 2007):
 Well, I've had huge arguments with partners, one which stands out was one where we went from saying "I love you" to 10 minutes later having a huge blow out arguement (friends involved the lot) - through lack of communication. Dumped by text, me bawling for 4 hours being totally beside myself, and him not bothering to speak to me despite my pleas to call and talk to me, to 3 hours later making up and talking right the way through, what led to the arguement and actually acknowledging what went wrong. We moved on, we got stronger.It's called an adult relationship.He's probably not used to the idea of moving forward from an arguement and going through the "I'm not your friend anymore" motion (you know, you've proabably said it a lot in reception class - I know I did!).Say to him that you want to talk and go ahead, at least it will clear up the matter, and then you can both moe on with your lives!
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 March 2007): i will say go to him listen what he hays to say and try to work things out!Dont just give it all up over a fight Everything happens for a reason go and talk to him pls
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (28 February 2007):
 It certainly would have been nice if he had gone into more detail as to what was bothering him. "Not Happy" isn't very helpful. I'd give it a few days then meet up with him and have a calm long talk. Sometimes a relationship needs some breathing room to survive. Unfortunately some relationships just come to a screeching halt. I know you'll be fine either way things turn out.
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