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female
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anonymous
writes: Hey all.i am 17 years old. My best friend of like 10 years had been going out with a guy since grade 6 thats like 7 years!! 2 weeks ago we all went to a party and got involved in drugs and stuff. We got completely wasted. I dont know how but it happened, i had sex with her boyfriend that night. I think i may be pregnant i dont know what to do now!
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reader, aunty t +, writes (8 March 2007):
First things first. You need to get a test to see if you are pregnant. If you are you need to tell a parent or relative so you can talk about your options. Another major concern if you are not pregnant is STD's. Having unprotected sex nowadays is so dangerous. Do you know does her boyfriend sleep around? I would not tell your friend about sleeping with her boyfriend it was a stupid drunken mistake and i hope that you have learned something from it. Take care
Aunty t
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (6 March 2007): Firstly get a pregnancy test to clear up whether you are pregnant or not. If you are then you need to consider the following options for the unborn baby: abortion, adoption or keep it. Next does your friend know that you had sex with her boyfriend? If not i think that it would be a good idea to tell her about it. After all you don't want to go round seeing them still in a relationship whilst knowing that you slept with him. I know that it will affect your friendship with her and probably break up the relationship with her boyfriend but how about if you are pregnant with your friend's boyfriend's baby? You would be going around pregnant whilst seeing them holding hands, kissing etc.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (6 March 2007):
Go get a pregnancy test at the drug store and find out if you are indeed PG. Write back if it is a positive. If it's negative then you just have to shape up and stop the drugs and getting so wasted that you end up in the sack with just about anybody. Take control of your own life.
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