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My boyfriend cheated on me and said he was sorry, it's me he loves, so why is he still texting this girl?

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Question - (23 February 2007) 4 Answers - (Newest, 24 February 2007)
A female Ireland age 36-40, *hels1 writes:

hi i am 19yrs old i have been with my partner for 4yrs and we have a 2yr old son together i love him very much he has cheated on me once before but he cheated on me again just last week i have decided to give him another chance but the girl he cheated with still texts him and i am finding it very difficult.

He says nothing is ever gonna happen and that he loves me she texts him saying she loves him i dont want to lose him but i feel like there must be something wrong with me if this is the second time he has done this i just dont know what to do

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A female reader, thels1 Ireland +, writes (24 February 2007):

thels1 is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Thank you all for my help he has told her to stop texting him and she hasnt so far hopefully it will stay this way thank you sooo sooo much

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A reader, anonymous, writes (24 February 2007):

It sounds he is playing both sides. I think you should tell him to pick one and see who he picks. he has a problem he cant keep playing both sides.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (23 February 2007):

Tell him to text her back saying for her to leave him alone as he is already in a relationship. Then if he carries on getting texts then to ignore them. If he doesn't do that for you then get out of this relationship, after all this is not the first time that he has cheated on you.

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (23 February 2007):

eyeswideopen agony auntThere is nothing wrong with you (well maybe you're too forgiving)HE'S the one with the problem. He is a cheater. He will do this to you over and over again. Let him see his son, let him pay you child support, but unless you are willing to put up with his nonsense, let him see what life is like without you.

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