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writes:I have been with a married man four two years and he say he has not slept with his wife at all. i just find that hard 2 believe cause we have sex like crazy i need some help.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 April 2007): it could be true. my husband has not laid a finger on me for two years... unless i throw myself desparately at him... and in the years that we have been married we might have done it 10 times and all initiated by me... so its damn possible
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (5 March 2007):
 Oh yeah he's got the best of two worlds. You can bet the farm that he's having sex at home just as much as he does with you. But if one of those worlds is going to crash it's yours. Save yourself and your self-respect and get out of this mess immediately.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 March 2007): Wakey wake!!! He isn't going to change! Run like hell and get yourself a life.
Take care
xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 March 2007): What rot!!! They all sleep with their wives. Don't be so stupid, wake up and smell the coffee!! You are not alone, it has happened to me in the past, no not never again though. Come on girl - don't let the side down, kick him to the kerb. You are just giving him his cake and he is eating it!!Have some self-respect. Get rid of this jerk. I just hope you all don't have any std's.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 March 2007): What is wrong with you, girl? Married man...children...have his last name, move the freak on. Hard to believe? The man is married. That's why it's so hard for good women to find good men, vice versa.
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reader, maxsteel86  +, writes (4 March 2007):
 Ummm four two years? Which one is it exactly? But that's irrelevant. Of course he's screwing his wife. You think if he hasn't been for so many years, his wife wouldn't ask questions? Unless they're in an open marriage, which I very much doubt, then yeah, he's lying to you about that. But you know he's married and this is nothing more than affair. Would it make you feel better if he wasn't sleeping with his wife?
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reader, kenny +, writes (4 March 2007):
 I think rythymandblues2 summed up the situation for you. Why are you wasting your time on a married man that would probably never leave his wife for you. Invariably married men never leave their wives, so ultimately you end up as the mistress, or bit on the side only seeing them when it is convienient for them to sneak away for some short term fun.
Of course he is sleeping with his wife, but i think you must have known the answer to that as you were typing the question.
Is the life you want? Do yourself a favour and find someone who dosen't come with a wife and kids.
All the best, x
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 March 2007): I dont know the answer to that question and i dont think ull ever truely know. all u know is what he tells u and what does that rly satnd for? he's being lying and cheating on his wife for 2 years- why would he treat u any different?! break away from this man and start a meaningful relationship with sum1 who actually wants to be with u for u, not just sex. I reckon if u try and remember the last time u met up and didnt have sex u wont be able to. even if he isnt having sex with his wife, he's having the rest of the realtionship with her and just using u for sex. look at the facts and move on. good luck x
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 March 2007): Of course he is having sex with his wife. He is also sharing a mortgage, family dinners, reading to and bathing his kids (if he has them) and telling them and his wife that he loves them, that is what husbands do. He is not going to jeopardize his livelilhood and ask for a divorce for you. He may tell you that, but it has been 2 years, most dating relationships end in marriage by then, but hah, he is already married!
Why are you desperate that you need to have sex with some other woman's husband? Why do you want to be a direct threat to her family? There has got to be a single guy who can fill the open position you have for a boyfriend!
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reader, Farris +, writes (4 March 2007):
 Well, if you & he are having sex like crazy, then it's obvious why he hasn't been with his wife. He gets all his sexual gratification from you.
I think you need to step back from the situation and ask yourself why you're with a man who would sleep with a woman other than his wife for two year. Are you really happy being in that situation?
Still, that's not my business, and not the question you asked... But please consider where you are with him, and question whether it's really where you want to be.
Best wishes.
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