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writes: Recently my mom has had the city inspecter tell us our grass what too high-wich caused stress on my mom then our car has gotten all messed up and shes stressed out about that.And she has been snarling at me so much and using it as a exuse too be pissy. She never listening too me when i just want someone too talk things over with.Its gotten SO bad that i am beggining too hate her.Plus i dont even like any food anymore i havent checked out a girl in almost a week. Some of my favourit games are boring now.Thats just some of the things.Its really becoming a problem.What should i do since she wont listen too me.And am i just being paranoid? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 June 2008): I would be talking to my mum and she would just walk away or my brother comes in and talks over me and she answers him and forgets that i even was talking to her
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 June 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionIts a phone job-she doesnt get 10 calls a day(im not exagerating-i got really pissed one day and counted)
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (6 June 2008):
Working 8 to 8 is a pretty damn good excuse if you ask me. Keep doing your chores like a good son and things will improve I'm sure.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 June 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionActually i have cut the grass twice.She made me.But the inspecter dude says its still not short enough.And too the comment below me did you even read my question?I actually do alot.I get her a drink all the time i do all the yard work plus i have school work and i have too care for the dog and keep the house clean.She says she cant because she works all day.(8AM to 8PM)If i dont she starts yelling at me and uses her 8 to 8 as another exuse.
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reader, x..BabyGirl..x +, writes (5 June 2008):
Maybe there's something that your mum is stressed out about, ask her if she's ok, if there's anything you can get her or if there's anything you can do to help.
She'll appreciate it loads, and maybe ease off a bit.
If she doesn't ask her for a sit down talk, ask her what's stressing her out, and why she's taking it out on you.
If she doesn't have an answer go and talk to a doctor, who will help you try and figure out where the problem is.
I wish you good luck! I myself have been in this position, but I'm nearly 14 and if my mum has a go at me I shout at her back, but I wouldn't advise this for you!
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (5 June 2008):
How about cutting the grass for your mom? You could work up an appetite and do your mom a favor at the same time. She sounds like she is under some pressure at the moment so ease up on her, it's tough being an adult. I don't tolerate whiny kids very well as you can tell.
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