Fed up with one position, one sided sex with an older man.
Q. Hello, I'm a 23 year old female involved with a 56 year old male. My problem is our sex life is pretty much one side. He only wants to have sex in the missionary position since he believes this is the only way to get me pregnant. He tends to fo...
A. 29 August 2008: I agree with you, you are really being stupid at this moment, and I also got a glimmer that you kinda like this pervy crap.... (read in full...)
He didn't want "a relationship", but now he says he does. I'm confused.
Q. recently ive been seeing a guy and at the moment we have become soo close and really care about each other we became slightly physical and shared many moments, kisses and stories... i then decided to ask him out offically and he said he wasnt ready ...
A. 21 July 2008: Give him another chance but if he starts behaving squirrely then drop him like a hot potato.... (read in full...)
Is my girlfriend saying she can't cope with being second to my daughter? Are we done?
Q. My girlfriend that I have been dating for a couple months said some strange things last night. In short, my daughter is visiting and we stayed at my girlfriends place for 5 days. We live in different cities, but close enough to commute for long ...
A. 21 July 2008: It sounds like she was just looking for some reassurance. Tell her what you just told us, you have a heart big enough for two very special females. If she still feel this inordinate sense of competition with your daughter, then you'd best move onto ... (read in full...)
I'm not sure I want to meet my online date, as he is not my type and comes accross as really obsessive - so should I?
Q. Hi, i really need some advice. There's this guy i've been talkin to on msn who lives local. Apparently he really likes me, and i think i like him too but he comes across as really obsessive... he often rings me, emails me etc. And it does become r...
A. 21 July 2008: I'd go with my gut feeling, which I assume from your post is to not meet up with the guy. If he irritates you now think what he might be like if you get in a 'real' relationship. trust your instincts on this one.... (read in full...)
Is it a bad idea to get a tattoo of his name? He wants to get one of mine.
Q. my boyfriend and i been 2gether for 3 years and we been living 2gether for 1 of those 3 years. Anyways, we want 2 get married but dont have alot of money and have been saving for the perfect wedding but my boyfriend wants to get my name tattoed on ...
A. 21 July 2008: Ask Angelina Jolie, Pamela Anderson, Tommy Lee and Billy Bob Thornton if it's a good idea.... (read in full...)
I feel I have to vie with pretty younger females for the attention of men!
Q. With all this easy internet accesss and lap dancing clubs and easier access to plenty of women its almost impossisble to find a man who wants to have a steady relationship with me. I am reasonably attractive for my age but its so easy now for guys...
A. 17 July 2008: I work with a woman who lost her husband early in her marriage and had to raise her daughter by herself. She remained single for many years. She is your age. Then a year or so ago she met a man through friends and they fell madly in love and are now ... (read in full...)
Should I have sex or not?
Q. Could you try and help plz me and this boy are on about having sex i dont know wether i should go on with it or not hes a lovley boy and i do like him its just i think im a bit scared as we will be doing it outside (probably in a bush) it will also ...
A. 16 July 2008: Well that will make a lovely story to tell your grandkids won't it.... (read in full...)
Teen hormones plus unrequited love...
Q. i love someone but they dont love me but i want to have sex with him but he dosnt know i want to have sex what should i do?...
A. 16 July 2008: Oh please....... (read in full...)
We didn't use protection, but he pulled out. Could I be pregnant?
Q. umm, i had sex without protection and he pulled out of my vagina. after he pulled out i seen pre cum and real cum came out at the same time. but it didn't get inside of me. could i be pregnant if that happened ?...
A. 16 July 2008: No balloon, no party...love that PractiGal!... (read in full...)
Six months dating her, do things that she likes, she does not want to have sex, as much as I do, I am feeling neglected, how do I let her know, I may go elsewhere?
Q. Been with this girl for 6 months now and sex between us has slowed down to the point that it is unhealthy. In the last month and 1/2 we had sex like 3 times. When ever I start to make an advance on her she tells me that she doesn't want to get ...
A. 16 July 2008: How old are both of you?... (read in full...)
Fed up with one position, one sided sex with an older man.
Q. Hello, I'm a 23 year old female involved with a 56 year old male. My problem is our sex life is pretty much one side. He only wants to have sex in the missionary position since he believes this is the only way to get me pregnant. He tends to fo...
A. 15 July 2008: You are really scaring us. This is so dangerous. Do exactly what Trish said, please write back and say you are in a safe place.
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I want to test the waters to find out how much he likes me
Q. I met this guy a couple years ago through a mutual friend. We get along great, and whenever we are around each other there is good chemistry between us. I've been in love with this guy for quite some time now. How could I go about finding out if ...
A. 15 July 2008: Do you guys go out together alone? You know on dates? If there's always a crowd around you need to find a way to be alone with him. If he jumps at the chance I think that would be a huge indicator.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend hits me. I need help but I can't get it
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years. We had a very very different relationship. We were always fine, we argued alot but never anything more really. He is bipolar, very badly. He lives with his mom. He has been to a councelor but stopped ...
A. 15 July 2008: Dying of stress is one thing, bleeding to death from a stab wound is another. Listen to the excellent advice you've been given. If you don't get out now, it will be your own fault if something happens. Move.... (read in full...)
Sex statistics on fellatio and anal?
Q. what percent of single women have performed fellatio and what same for having anal intercourse....
A. 15 July 2008: Math questions are so hard....... (read in full...)
Can I get into trouble over something I haven't consciously done? I'm scared of my ex's threats!
Q. i have a scary problem, me and my ex have been good friends since we split up, or so i thought,im well known for falling asleep in the middle of a conversation/disscusion/even an argument after a few drinks, what happened tonight i havent a clue, ...
A. 15 July 2008: I don't know about the laws in your country but I do know you need to lay off the sauce. Obviously your body doesn't metabolize alcohol well. You may end up seriously hurt.... (read in full...)
His overprotective family is making him choose!!
Q. I've been going out with my boyfriend for almost three years now, and his family have been there to invade our privacy the whole time. No matter where we go or what we do, they are always phoning him, even if he is about to see them, or has just ...
A. 15 July 2008: You have been in a relationship for three years with Peter Pan. I doubt if he will ever grow up, sounds like he enjoys being Mama's good boy. Tell him to look you up when he decides to grow up. Don't waste anymore time on the dope.... (read in full...)
Can a 16 year old date a 30 year old legally?
Q. When you're 16, can you go out with a 30 year old or older without getting into trouble with police??...
A. 15 July 2008: Oh great now the posters are answering their own questions.... (read in full...)
What pet names can you call a guy?
Q. A guy calls you 'baby, huni, sexy.' But what can you call a guy? ...
A. 15 July 2008: Just don't call him late to dinner.... (read in full...)
How do I fix my scruffy husband?
Q. My husband's choice of clothing has got scruffier and scruffier and I find it embarrassing being out and about with him. As well as that, he doesn't change with the seasons any more as he used to, but wears long sleeved shirt, trousers, thick socks, ...
A. 15 July 2008: My husband has the fashion sense of a two year old. Unfortunately he also spills on his clothes as well. He loves to garden but forgets to change out of his good clothes to do it. You don't want my laundry nightmares believe me. He'll ask me if I'm ... (read in full...)
Could I still be pregnant if his pre-cum didn't get inside me?
Q. Me and this close friend had sex. i was a virgin and he wasn't. we both were clothed, but we had sex without protection. then he pulled out of my vagina. then he pre cam on the floor. can i still get pregnant if the pre cum never got inside me ?...
A. 15 July 2008: Why on earth are you having sex when you don't even understand the human reproductive system works? It's like getting on a busy expressway in a car you built yourself when you haven't a clue about auto mechanics.... (read in full...)
Her mum knows we got up to things in the bedroom, how do I handle this?
Q. Well as I write this I feel sick. I was at my girlfriend's house today and we were upstairs in the tv room messing around. Her mum and 18 year old cousin were downstairs watching tv and we were aware of this. The plan was to keep on doing what we ...
A. 15 July 2008: She won't believe you any way if you say you'll never do it again, that's why I said to be as truthful with her as you can. Parent's expect some fooling around but the fact that you guys aren't having actual sex intercourse is a big plus. I just ... (read in full...)
I'm married. Would one afternoon of extra-martial passion be THAT wrong?
Q. I've been married nine years and have kids. Sex is not as adventurous as I'd like but things are fine. Better than fine. I Iove my wife and enjoy a wonderful family life. Then I go and get drunk at a conference and have some sexy action with a woman ...
A. 14 July 2008: Birdy is right as rain, as usual. Are you being ridiculously naive? Yep. How wrong is this? On a scal of 1 to 100, this would be around 225. You want an adventure? Tell the wife what happened at your conference.... (read in full...)
Seriously - Would you cheat with a celebrity if it was safe?
Q. i need serious answers. Married or single women - if you could sleep with any hot celebrity you wanted to and there was no way in the world you could get caught would you cheat on your husband or boyfriend? Serious answers only please....
A. 14 July 2008: You are really hung up with this whole George Clooney comment from your wife aren't you? Rest assured that if George Clooney actually did proposition your wife I'll bet dimes for donuts that she would tell him to jump in the lake. You are sweating ... (read in full...)
Fed up with one position, one sided sex with an older man.
Q. Hello, I'm a 23 year old female involved with a 56 year old male. My problem is our sex life is pretty much one side. He only wants to have sex in the missionary position since he believes this is the only way to get me pregnant. He tends to fo...
A. 14 July 2008: Listen to the aunts, he's a control freak and he has more issues than just his choice of sexual position. Run away as fast as your 23 year old legs can run.... (read in full...)
How do I please a man in bed?
Q. How do I please a man? How and where do they like to be touched? I know this varies man by man but suggestions would be helpful. I have asked my man and all he says is "just try something"....
A. 14 July 2008: Where have you been the last 41-50 years? Or are you really a 13-15 year old looking for trouble? On the off chance that you really are as old as you say, just try something like your man suggests.... (read in full...)
Might be pregnant, boyfriend stressed - What to do!
Q. My boyfriend has been really stressed lately, mainly because we're thirteen and might become parents. I always feel like I am doing something wrong. I try to get him to talk to me about it, but he says he doesn't want to because he doesn't want me ...
A. 14 July 2008: "Might become parents"??? Are you or are you not pregnant? That's much more important than whether or not he's making you worried, doncha think?... (read in full...)
My wife told me she would cheat on me with George Clooney if she had the chance!!!
Q. Guys, would it bother you a lot if this happened to you? My wife and I were watching tv last night where a woman was asked a question, if George Clooney asked her to have sex with her and there was no way she could get caught would she cheat on her ...
A. 14 July 2008: My husband used to think Angelina was very hot but he's decided to cut her out of his life because of how she treated Jen and also because she gets pregant too easily ;... (read in full...)
Sex without Protection
Q. My boyfriend and I had sex for the first time in our whole life without protection and he just pulled out. I feel like he didn't pull out in time because we did leave it in a couple of times. He also had ejaculated the day before. Am I pregnant? ...
A. 14 July 2008: What is even more scary, O Conner, is that most of these sweet young things have no clue as to how the human reproductive system works let alone how to take precautionary actions to avoid pregnancy and diseases. One has to wonder where the heck are ... (read in full...)
My wife told me she would cheat on me with George Clooney if she had the chance!!!
Q. Guys, would it bother you a lot if this happened to you? My wife and I were watching tv last night where a woman was asked a question, if George Clooney asked her to have sex with her and there was no way she could get caught would she cheat on her ...
A. 14 July 2008: Come on guy, what's not to trust? True, if she knew you'd take it so seriously, she should have kept her trap shut but really...don't you think you are over reacting just a tad?... (read in full...)
Her mum knows we got up to things in the bedroom, how do I handle this?
Q. Well as I write this I feel sick. I was at my girlfriend's house today and we were upstairs in the tv room messing around. Her mum and 18 year old cousin were downstairs watching tv and we were aware of this. The plan was to keep on doing what we ...
A. 14 July 2008: So you caught with the proverbial pants down huh? You sound like a very bright young man and the points you have brought up to discuss with the mother are very well thought out. I would, however, keep it as truthful as you can. Apologize, promise to ... (read in full...)
How do I get over my husband's brother?
Q. I have found myself in a very difficult situation and do not know how to deal with it. I met my hubby when I was 12 and he was 14 - and have been together since then. I married him at 18 and he is pretty much a nice guy. He has a brother who is 2 ...
A. 14 July 2008: I don't understand why you are getting all upset when therapy is suggested? You obviously are having difficulty coping with your feelings for you brother in law, so maybe a counselor can help you gain the tools to do so. That's not being judgmental, ... (read in full...)
Want to find out how you would act in a relationship, take this test.
Q. After reading all these articles I decided to throw this in there too! I was given this test by a "relationship theropist" LOL yes that title does exist! However it was interesting to see just which one you pick....... Read the question, don't ...
A. 14 July 2008: I guess most guys would pick the sheep, eh?... (read in full...)
I hurt her, and she won't have anything to do with me - will she ever give me another go?
Q. Hi, i put a question up the other day about how to win my ex back back after hurting her. I never cheated or anything, i just emotionally tore her apart to the point she felt ill with worry. never intentional, i just always knew she would come ...
A. 14 July 2008: You need to leave her alone. Work on improving yourself, get help with that anger management. But leave her alone. If you truly love her you will respect her wishes. Stay busy and don't mope around. If after a period of time SHE decides to contact ... (read in full...)
How do I get over my husband's brother?
Q. I have found myself in a very difficult situation and do not know how to deal with it. I met my hubby when I was 12 and he was 14 - and have been together since then. I married him at 18 and he is pretty much a nice guy. He has a brother who is 2 ...
A. 14 July 2008: There is a line between a crush and an obsession. I think you have crossed that line. If this obsession is causing you pain and depression then therapy is warranted.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend insists on fisting me and having rough sex even though I have had many operations 'down below' and it causes me so much pain
Q. so i think i need some advice cause i am not sure what to do. my fiance and i have been together for a year and a half. we are deeply in love and he does everything under the sun for me. i couldnt ask for a better man. but we have a few sex issues. ...
A. 14 July 2008: You couldn't ask for a better man? PLEASE! You should be looking for a man, what you have right now is a vicious beast.... (read in full...)
We had sex, then he got mad at me and I don't know why!
Q. I'll make this short and simple. I met a guy recently. I fell for him straight away. He had gorgeous eyes, and an amazing personality. After we met, we constantly called eachother and always wanted to see eachother. Well, that was all be...
A. 14 July 2008: hee hee Uncle Phil!... (read in full...)
We had sex, then he got mad at me and I don't know why!
Q. I'll make this short and simple. I met a guy recently. I fell for him straight away. He had gorgeous eyes, and an amazing personality. After we met, we constantly called eachother and always wanted to see eachother. Well, that was all be...
A. 11 July 2008:
This is the result from immature "I think I'm an adult but I'm not" casual sex. Some people have to learn everything the hard way and I'm afraid you just did. Keep a nickel between those knees until you can say "I'm a mature, responsible pers... (read in full...)
My boyfriend's parents think it was slutty to leave with with a hickey, how can I change this?
Q. my bf's parents saw the hickey (love bite) i gave him, weve been going out for 10months and were both 17 they told him i was a slut how do i make them realise im not? how do i fox things please help!!!...
A. 10 July 2008: I think they are overreacting. However maybe you should stop with the hickeys and always behave like a lady when you are in their presence. Actions speak louder yada yada. They will change their opinions if they are reasonable people.... (read in full...)
I am happy with my boyfriend, even though he is 28 years older than I am, does the age difference matter, if the relationship is working??
Q. i am currently going out with sum1 28 years older then me ever since i've met him i've felt happy and more confident he supports me in everything i do. but then there's my dad who's telling me he's just using me and also my sister who wont talk to ...
A. 10 July 2008: You are going to get responses that say that age differences don't matter. Sometimes they don't but 28 years?!!!!! You don't give a lot of info to go on either. But I've got to say that if I were in your shoes this difference in ages would be too ... (read in full...)
Need advice badly. I am having an affair and don't know why.
Q. I am 29 and have been in an amazing, loving, fun relationship for 2 years. I have found my soulmate. I love him dearly and we have a wonderful time together. We have great sex, we laugh a lot, we have fun, he's very stable, attentive, generous...
A. 9 July 2008: Take Uncle Phil up on his offer (mighty nice of you by the way Uncle Phil, wink wink)and forget about this other guy. You are playing with fire and you'll get burnt. Don't risk everything for a couple twinges of pleasure.... (read in full...)
Looking for more attention in the bedroom, from my wife, what do I do?
Q. My wife will not touch me in the bedroom. She enjoys foreplay and missionary. Nothing else really excites her. We have talked about this many times but she just blows it off and changes the subject. What do I do?...
A. 9 July 2008: You need to have another chat about this, insist on it. She isn't playing fair here. There has to be a middle ground where both partners get some satisfaction sexually. Give and take is crucial to every marriage. If she still refuses to talk you ... (read in full...)
My boss and I are VERY attracted to one another, but he's married!
Q. i met a guy a year ago, we clicked instantly, then i found out he was part owner of were i worked and was kinda my manager as well, i had no idea at the time, and had made a pass at him ...he responded , but not a full on response. because of his...
A. 8 July 2008: So he is not living in the same house with his wife?... (read in full...)
My boss and I are VERY attracted to one another, but he's married!
Q. i met a guy a year ago, we clicked instantly, then i found out he was part owner of were i worked and was kinda my manager as well, i had no idea at the time, and had made a pass at him ...he responded , but not a full on response. because of his...
A. 1 July 2008: Do the right thing, leave him alone until he gets his divorce. And at work don't allow yourself to be alone with him. Really you should try to get another job. Something makes me think that you are really just enjoying all this and it's not the ... (read in full...)
My boss and I are VERY attracted to one another, but he's married!
Q. i met a guy a year ago, we clicked instantly, then i found out he was part owner of were i worked and was kinda my manager as well, i had no idea at the time, and had made a pass at him ...he responded , but not a full on response. because of his...
A. 1 July 2008: If you've been the other woman before and gotten burned then you certaily don't seem very careful to me. Adultery should always be a pain in the ass.... (read in full...)
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