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*adeybaby
writes:Right i like this guy, weve kissed, had sex, blah, blah... well i really like him, and hes told me he likes me, he asked me if im looking for a relationship and i said i dont know, and he said that he likes me but at the moment hes just looking for fun, and that he wants too wait till he has a bit more money before he wants a relationship. i really, really like this guy, and he says i would make great girlfriend. is he just saying this to string me along for sex or does he actually genuinly like me?
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reader, PeterPan  +, writes (9 June 2008):
 I heard your call -- here's another opinion. Relationships are not solely about sex or a sexual encounter. I really don't understand the issue with money regarding if you two are in a serious relationship. I mean, if it's a matter of wanting to pay for everything, that's gallant of him, but probably not necessary. If you like his company then be with him. And that doesn't mean that he has to treat you to everything... you could offer to pay too... or do more "cheap date" activities.
To me, love is more than just how much cash you have to treat the other to nice things. A real test is do you like to be around each other without feeling you need to spend anything but time together... get it?
Good luck!!
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reader, jadeybaby +, writes (9 June 2008):
jadeybaby is verified as being by the original poster of the question can i have some more advice please, and maybe some personal experiences of your own, because i really do need help with this!!!
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (9 June 2008):
 He's stringing you along for sex. Put a nickel between those knees of yours.
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