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30-35,
*rincess maryjane
writes:hi, i have fell in love with so many guys. but it does not last because they leave me at the end saying that am not good in bed. what do i do?
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reader, M!  +, writes (9 June 2008):
 maybe get to know the guy before you give yourself away so fast?It sounds like you think love is sex, when it's definitly not. Love is being able to be yourself around each other. And being there for each other. And having respect and caring for one another.Having a guy break up with you cause you're not "good in bed" obviously shows that he doesnt care about you.So yeah, stop being so easy and respect yourself, first. get to actually know the guy, second. and then decide what to do, third.
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reader, bfire +, writes (9 June 2008):
Stop having sex with them so fast. You are what 17? Had sex many times with different guys that all leave and say "ur not good in bed." Find better guys who don't just care about using you for sex. So what you should do is stop giving guys sex right away. Refuse it to them for a while, if they still stick with you, then they will most likely stay with you after sex.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (9 June 2008):
 Quit being an easy lay. They are just saying that to ditch you. Start behaving yourself with self-respect and dignity, THAT'S what you should do.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 June 2008): If you were lucky enugh to fall in love three times in your life you would be lucky. The fact that you are doing this so much means you don't really love them, just in a superficial way. Perhaps they are all friends who have decided to be cruel to you. Don't go to bed with any old person and think that by being good in bed you will make yourself seem a good person. If you meet someone and give them time to prove themself to you and really love you there is no way they would say or think the things you are told.
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