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writes:Why is it guys that cheat and womanise, become even more attractive to women, ain't it kind of encourage other guys to cheat? are women reaping what they sow?
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 June 2008): Most women end up getting tired of the players.
But that's after she has spent her youth passing up guys who tried being decent to her. And after she's had 3 or 4 of the player's kids.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 June 2008): I have found myself infactuated with players before. I agree with Collaroy that it is partly us wanting to change them. But let's not point all the blame at the females here for liking these players. Surely male instinct is playing a part in this problem too. To a guy the only thing better than having a women interested in him.... is having LOTS of women interested in him.
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reader, Collaroy  +, writes (6 June 2008):
 Only some women find cheaters worthwhile. They believe they can change them - it really is as simple as that.
But then we see them almost every day on this site complaining about why they got mixed up with this womanizing creep - though they always say they still love him.
It's all rather sad.
If a cheater is competing with you for a girl, you are best off out of the competition, if she cannot see him for who he is then you've picked the wrong girl.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 June 2008): I believe in Karma and what goes around, comes around, sooner or later. I was cheated on and it hurts like hell, especially when they guy still appears to be keeping me in sight. I stay out of his sight, can't look at him, can't forgive him. He broke my heart, but I'll move on and time will heal. We women don't deserve to be treated this way!
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reader, eddie  +, writes (5 June 2008):
 There are all kinds of people out there. In general, people don't like cheaters. Period.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 June 2008): i dont know why..it's not all women..unfortuantley the one i am attracted to is like that..a wise man once said"well since i mastered time travel it's time to take on another one of lifes great mysteries..women!"you could spend a long time trying to figure it out but i doubt you ever will just hope that they will see the error of their ways soon enough..maybe if they get heartbroken by the same guy three times..(in my case it's only happend twice and she is still infatuated with him)
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (5 June 2008):
 I don't find cheaters or womanizers attractive in the slightest. I guess your theory has holes.
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