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*bbie959
writes:How do you give a fantastic mind blowing hand job? Or is it even possible? It use to take me like 2 minutes to get my bf finish now it takes upwards of 15 minutes...if it even happens. No oral involved in this....and there won't be so don't suggest that. I feel he's really getting disappointed with what I'm doing. Any suggestions?
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (29 July 2008):
 All right. I wasn't posting anything for you anyways. I'm responding to others who have thought they had to say things about me too. And, just as you don't care about me, well, I don't care about you either. Can you make this the end of it?
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reader, abbie959 +, writes (29 July 2008):
abbie959 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionOk seriously why in the hell are you still posting on this question. He is my first everything....first kiss, first boyfriend, etc. I wanted to wait for the right guy that wasn't a waste of my time. I know you have to ask the person to know exactly what they like. But I'd like to have something to refer to. If you think this is a ridiculous post why even waste my time? If you had to know, it will be one year this saturday for us..I'm very much in love with this man and I want to make him happy without compromising my already set rules. And frankly it seems like you don't have much more to do with your time than surf the net all day evading questions or answering with all of your "wisdom"....which I'm sure is far and few between. Don't insult my intelligence and damn my relationship....if you think it's dumb...don't answer. I'm sure there are 14 year old girls you can give relationship advice to...and frankly this 22 year old doesn't care nor want your advice.
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reader, Danielepew +, writes (28 July 2008):
That's exactly what I believe, porkchop. Advice from strangers about something you can ask your partner about? Have you ever tried communicating your sexual preferences with your sexual partner? And you're not exactly good at evading questions.
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reader, porkchop.xo  +, writes (28 July 2008):
 haha last time i checked this was a website for advice, and daniel looks like you are not giving advice at all... second if someone asked for advice on murdering a significant other i would give advice, not in the regard of how to do it but to get help on the issue.
and to think... all this over a little hand job?
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reader, ChiRaven +, writes (28 July 2008):
 Not only is every guy different, the SAME guy will be different at different at different times. Sometimes something that works extremely well at one time will just not do the trick at other times. That's why communication is so important. And if you've explored your own sexuality to any extent, you've probably already discovered this about yourself ... sometimes you're terribly turned on by something, but at other times it really doesn't do the same thing for you.
So talk. Let your partner know what you want, and make sure he feels comfortable letting you know what he wants. And feel comfortable about giving it to him. The bedroom is NOT the place to be shy or reticent.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (28 July 2008):
 Cut our Daniel some slack...we love him.
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reader, Danielepew +, writes (28 July 2008):
Well, don't ask for opinions from anyone with internet access and knowledge of English if you don't want to hear and smell the farts coming out from assholes. By the way, imagine what life would be like if you didn't have an asshole.
I will spare you the odor next time I see a question from you. I don't think you will mind anyways. I thank you for your distinguished vocabulary, because your answer has helped me understand that I just don't have to waste my time with some questions.
Wish you the best with your boyfriend. I'm afraid you need all the luck in the world.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 July 2008): i'm female and 36 and I'm glad poster that you asked the question because I've never just 'known' and even if you looked it up on the internet its not easy to grasp (so to speak:-) and I agree good advice. I think I am going to try starting off in the shower maybe and take it slow and ask what feels good. Thats good advice and common sense as every guy is gonna be different as to what works and what doesn't.
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reader, abbie959 +, writes (28 July 2008):
abbie959 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionDanielepew- frankly you're an asshole.
Everyone else thank you for your help and advice. I'll look into it. I'm asking because I don't know and I'm not comfortable asking my friends for advice such as this. Thanks again
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reader, ChiRaven +, writes (28 July 2008):
The key to really good sex of any kind is always good communication. You want to know what your guy wants? ASK HIM! Discuss your needs, and get him to tell you his. Have him give you specific guidance while you are doing it, and follow his lead. The results will amaze you.
But the key is to establish an agreement that the two of you can discuss things openly and honestly at any time without fear and without reservation. THAT is really the key. You've got to let him know that it's OK for him to ask you for what he wants, and he's got to let you know that you can ask for what you want, too. Once you two get to that stage of mutual trust and intimacy, sex just keeps getting better and better.
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reader, Danielepew +, writes (28 July 2008):
Well, porkchop, you have a point, and then none. From this day on, when I have nothing to say about something, or think that this is not the place to say it, I will keep my mouth shut.
On the other hand, I have a question for you: if someone comes to the site asking how to murder his/her significant other, would you answer?
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reader, porkchop.xo +, writes (28 July 2008):
Hey try looking at sites on the internet, such as www.sexinfo101.com or even just searching up techniques, just a tip guys can tell if you don't want to do it and it doesn't turn them on so if you really don't want to be doing this or blowjobs don't cause its not worth it.
Also Danielpew what is the point in coming on this website if people aren't going to give advice on what you are looking for? you just wasted this girl's time... you can ask whatever you want on here and get an answer for it.
good luck :)
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reader, Danielepew +, writes (28 July 2008):
I'm afraid that explanations in this regard should not be given here.
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