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writes:My wife and I have been married for almost 5 years now and she has a sister which is a couple years younger than her...I am really not exactly sure what I should do on this situation so I thought I could ask for some advice....her sister is unmarried and no attachments at the moment, I have always found her sister very hot and attractive which I believe she realizes....there are many times she has stayed over our house at night or had the night out on the town and instead of driving home which is about a thirty minute drive from the city she decides to come to our house which is right inside town....the last six months or so things began to change a bit it seems, my wife works the graveyard shift four days a week and has the other three off and for the most part her sister would only stay all night on the nights she was off work.....till recently....she calls me up very late or shall I say very early in the morning after hanging out with some friends....she asks if it's alright if she can crash at our house and like the other times I see no problem with it, shortly after I hear a knock on the door....she comes in seemingly sober and I lock the door behind her telling her she can sleep on the couch if she wishes....but her begins the enigma....right out of the blue she tells me for whatever reason her friends earlier had their bras off and while driving around town some soda got spilled on hers she then proceeds to tell me that she doesn't have a bra on....that's it...nothing more or less....just her story and she's not wearing her bra....well being half asleep I don't think I really comprehend what just perspired till after I was back in my own bed....I let things go and the next day I tell my wife of the conversation after her sister woke up and left the house....she thought it was funny and laughed it off....as did I and never thought much more on it with exception of the occasional fantasy of what she may have been trying to seduce me if I just had the audacity to act on it...( Good thing I was half asleep lol )....well a month passes give or take a week and my phone rings again....this time it wasn't so late yet my wife was again at work....her sister then says some of her plans fell through and if she could come hang out with me....of course I said yeah....ok I will skip ahead an hour or so after she arrived at my house....she asks me when the last time I had smoked a joint....knowing good and well the answer to that because we all had this topic brought up once or twice before....anyways I told her almost ten years....she asks if I want to smoke one with her....after considerable thinking I reluctantly concurred ....after half the joint if smoked between us she then asks if I know what a "shotgun" is and I was pretty sure she wasn't speaking of a REAL gun, now call me dumb, but I never really smoked a lot of weed back when I was younger and even if I had knew what it was....I doubt I would had remembered.....with that I told her no I had no clue....she then got came over, knelt in front of me and put the cherry end of the smoke into her mouth and got within like an inch or two of my mouth and blew the smoke out so I could breath it in.....WOW....thats all I could think at that time....was wow....it had been so long since I had been stoned and it hit me hard....in BOTH ways....after it was over she got back up, sat on the couch and acted like we normally would act, talk about same stuff we would normally talk about to one another....again call me a pansy, and maybe I am, or maybe it's the honor and loyalty in me that held fast and wouldn't let things happen....even if she intended on doing that to get me high so I would make the first move....hell I really do not know.....anyways guys....what do you get out of this??? Am I thinking to much into it? Or do you honestly think she's wanting to have sex with me and I'm just plain blind?? If the latter is the case then I know I shouldn't and most likely will never act on it, guess I'm just too much an old fashioned gentleman....but I suppose I would just like some opinions on the matter....thanks for any responses you all may leave and sorry for such a long post.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (31 July 2008):
 You're acting too much into it. Whatever she might mean, there is a clear and right way to act here, and that way is not going along with anything that might remotely suggest you have an interest in your sister in law or you accept any of her advances.
It is very clear you are attracted to your sister in law, and it is just a physical thing. You're at the right moment to handle things as you rightly should. Your sister in law might mean whatever she wishes to mean, but you know what you should do yourself.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (31 July 2008):
 It doesn't matter in the slightest what the sister's agenda might be...YOU DO NOT WANT TO GO THERE. If you are uncomfortable or afraid you may indeed go there, make sure dear little sister only visits when your wife is at home.
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reader, Auntiee Amsiee  +, writes (31 July 2008):
 yes she is flirting, if you love your wife regardless of the beginning statement you will ignore her sister! make excuses not to see her or talk to her make it clear you have no interest this is a nasty situation and only hurt can come out of it.
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reader, Dr Vendetta +, writes (31 July 2008):
 reguardless of if the sister is flirting with you.. which she is.the real question is do you love your wife. and if you do.. you'll stop having your sister-in-law over.
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (31 July 2008):
It could be she's flirting because she's like this with every man and just enjoys the feeling. I'm quite a flirty person but I have to admit I would not get that far.
Sisters have a weird competative thing going on. Her older sister will always have been the hotter one with bigger boobs etc and all the boys will have come up to talk to her, to try and get info on her sister. I bet there have been boys she really liked who liked her sister instead.
Now the tables have turned and she is the younger hotter one so it could be that she's baiting you pretty much for sport. Whether she would have sex with you or stop you as soon as she got to the point where she could, is up to her own ethics.
But just be aware that you are probably being played like a little mouse in this game of hers, and she'll split you out when she's done.
When she asks if she can stay over next make some excuse about all your guy friends being there or say you have a migraine, if she comes round anyway then make sure the door is locked and don't answer it. Let her know you are not completely within her power and she might back off a bit.
Good Luck!! xx
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