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writes: i have know this guy for three years and just started having sex.we both like each other and have feelings for each other but he has a girlfriend he keeps saying he's going to break up with her but he doesn't.my question is does he really want to be with me and should I end what we have befor I get hurt?
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (28 July 2008):
 You are sloppy seconds. It's up to you to allow yourself to be used in this fashion.
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reader, hlskitten  +, writes (28 July 2008):
 I would hazard a guess and say thats too late. I expect you already will get hurt, because if he was going to leave her, he would of done so, very quickly after you got it together.
Have to decide if you can be the other woman and share him, or give him a time limit/deadline.
You will almost certainly deserve better than being someones bit on the side. You dont have to be. Snatching moments when he's not with her. And You're single i assume, you dont need that.
C xxxxx
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reader, LaydeeOfSorrows  +, writes (28 July 2008):
 Confront him about this, ask him why he says he will, but doesn't.
It seems like he is using you for sex, while having another girlfriend, which you shouldn't stand for.
If he really does like you, he would have broken up with her by now, or maybe he just doesn't want to hurt her feelings.
I suggest looking for a new guy, someone decent who respects and loves you.
Good luck!
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