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I seem unable to carry a baby to full term. What are we doing wrong?

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Question - (22 July 2008) 4 Answers - (Newest, 22 July 2008)
A female United States age 30-35, *reezieworthy writes:

im almost 20 years old and have had 3 miscarriage with my husband in the past year.we lost a set of twins at 7 months in sept of last year and than lost another when i wasnt even 12 weeks in january 2008 and just lost another at 9 1/2 weeks july 3rd 2008 i was wanting advice on some questions i had from other people who have experianced this problem. Are we concieve to quick in between miscarriage that i am not giving my body to to recuperate or could it just be my body isnt ready to carry a baby.

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A male reader, LazyGuy Netherlands +, writes (22 July 2008):

LazyGuy agony auntThat is really a question for your doctor. There can be so many reasons for mis-carriages, especially as you don't mention the month it happens.

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (22 July 2008):

eyeswideopen agony auntAssuming you've been checked out by your doctor, what did he/she tell you?

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A female reader, Fiona xxx United Kingdom +, writes (22 July 2008):

Fiona xxx agony auntSo sorry to hear of your loss and your hard times.

A friend of mine had a miscarriage and was told to wait x amount of time. It wasn't long, a matter of 2-3 months at the most. She has since had a lovely girl.

There are no easy answers, but don't blame yourself, I dont' think things are as simple as that.

Good luck and do get advice from dr/midwife if they think you should wait x amount of time etc.

Fiona.

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A female reader, meadowsweet Ireland +, writes (22 July 2008):

My thoughts are with you, thats so sad to lose those babies, I lost a baby at 6 months and also one at 7 weeks - I dont really have any answers and I know this wont help the pain you feel, at least you are still young and you do seem to get pregnant fairly quickly so that s a plus, wishing you all the best - (I now have 2 boys one age 3 an one aged 8) an i do have plenty of friends who've lost babies but they all have kids now i'm sure u will be lucky in time

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