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30-35,
*love_love_you_ana
writes:i just broke up with my girl friend ana and now she hates me alot. we broke up because of me using vulgar words towards her, any ideas on how to get her back?
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 July 2008): This [to me] sounds like the sort of advice I need to give my ex boyfriend. I'm somebody who has been on the receiving end of this. You really have to understand how much it hurts. From somebody you trusted and loved feels awful. My ex knows their is no chance we are getting back together, but if you are lucky enough for your girlfriend to forgive you make sure you treat her with the respect she deserves. You will never be able to forgive yourself if you don't understand how much it hurt her in the first place. Good Luck with whatever you decide to do. x
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 July 2008): An ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure. Clean up your mouth, learn some new words to replace your vulgar ones. It is embarrassing to be with someone who curses, it sound ignorant and shows a limited knowledge of language.Do you think you can really control your mouth? The tell her this, exactly this wayAnna, I understand that my use of foul language has embarassed you and scared you away, for that I am terribly sorry. I thought it was a harmless thing as I hear a lot of other's talking this way, but now I understand why I shouldn't talk this way and I promise I will do my very best to stop this indecent language starting immediately. You mean the world to me and I would sincerely appreciate it if you would reconsider us breaking up and give it another chance. I may need a little help and reminder in the beginning as it is an engrained habit, but with your help, I know I can kick this. What do you think, Anna?Perhaps you could send it by text or email so as to get it right.........good luck and be sure to back your words up with action, be a man of your words. If you blow it, you blow her trust in you.
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (28 July 2008):
 Swearing and using vulgar words shows a limited vocabulary. But why would you want to get her back if you were using bad language towards her in the first place? Doesn't sound to me that you even like her very much.
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female
reader, uberpinkii  +, writes (28 July 2008):
 great advice student of life :)
Yea, appologise to her, take her out :)
dont use this language in the first place!
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male
reader, StudentOfLife  +, writes (28 July 2008):
 Apologize!
I'm going to tell you something right away. This situation will repeat itself if you don't learn to control yourself. Life works this way: "Lesson repeated until lesson learned"
My dad always told me, if you find a girl that you like always treat her with respect and like a queen because, a queen she is.
She's the queen of your world.
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