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30-35,
*shleyterese
writes:okay well my boyfriend and i have been going out for almost three months now and we've had sex a lot but now he's been asking me all the time to have a threesome with him and he just won't understand that i really don't want to. sometimes he says that he's joking but deep down i know that he's not.Also, he has told me that i can pick anyone i want and even suggested two girls,joking around one of them was his ex that he was with for over a year basically on and off but still. truely i just want him for myself but idk. and he said that one day he WILL have it and i said well not with me and he said well fine. but i don't know if that's a sign that he just really wants to do it and not be with me or what. He also asked me if we could break up for like a week and then get back together after we have a threesome and he just really isn't understanding. i never know when he is kidding aroundd or being serious because he teases me about everything all the time. HELPP MEEEEEE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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reader, ashleyterese +, writes (13 November 2008):
ashleyterese is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thankss so much everyoneee.this advicee really helped!! :)
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reader, Enigmatical  +, writes (13 November 2008):
Given your age the only reason he is pushing for this is because he thinks he can get it. I dont think he has any consideration for you and sees you simply as a sex toy that he now wants to use to try and get others.
You want a person who is understand and while they may have fantasies like this is willing to talk about everything else that is involved.
How would he feel if the threesome involved a guy of your choosing whom you said you had the hots for. Would he be as eager to do it then?
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reader, helpjayne  +, writes (13 November 2008):
 i'm pretty sure the ex comment was only to wind u up tell him your insecure about it and you don't like the idea of it and ask him if he wants to try other things, but don't be pressured into doing anything i mean most people when they hit 30 are only just trying threesomes.
if he winds you up and says how about her. tell him that you'l only have a threesome if it's another guy seeing his face drop might amuse you for a good few hours.
goodluck
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (13 November 2008):
 If you keep going like this you will be sexually burnt out by the time you hit your twenties and a track record that may bother many a prospective husband. Think about it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 November 2008): What you really need is a new boyfriend! This guy is a total jerk and will leave you in an emotional reck, save yourself and stop having sex so young.
If you can't get yourself to leave him and want him to stop this undesirable behavior, give it back to him once. Look at a guy that is very attractive(while you are out with your boyfriend) and then look your boyfriend in the eye and tell him you will have a threesome with him, but you want that boy right there to be the third party.
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