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writes:i am gonna sound so strange but here we go.Well recently i have made friends with this boy, and we have become really close, but i have been telling him lies, just so he is interested in me :(i told him i have 8 sisters 5 cars and my hair colour is actually blonde but i dye it. I am so ashamed i wish i could turn back time, but if i wouldnt of said this he wouldnt of been my friend, and today he was talking to my brother and asked her how my sisters are doing, she just was very confused and told him i have no sisters. i was nearly caught out, and he wants to come round. he will see no cars no sisters and 3 bedrooms. i CANT tell him the truth i will lose him as my friend and anything else, cant i just say they all moved out or are on holiday or something? any ideas? thanks, sorry this was so long :(x
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reader, lishes  +, writes (12 November 2008):
my boyfriend freeks out wenever i have to go out with my girl friends,he"s a jealous type and so doesn"t allow me to speak to my guy friends.he doesn"tell me he loves me,apparently he believes love is a strong word and can only be used by married couples.he tells me he likes me very much but i relly don"t feel comfortable with it.what do you think i should do?
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reader, Nikkii Babyee  +, writes (12 November 2008):
 i really think you need to tell him the truth :)
i made the mistake of lying to meet a boy once and i was lucky because i told him the truth an he understood an forgave me! really jus tell him the truth tell him you said what you said to impress him honestly if hes meant to be yer friend he will be fine :)
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reader, helpjayne +, writes (12 November 2008):
 you could make out all innocent and say i was only messing about all them things unless you've gone into detail about them all then maybe it's a good idea to tell him the truth if hes a true mayte and he likes you he'l stick around if not atleast ur not under any pressure to remember all the lies you have told. don't be afraid to be the real you and don't think your not good enough for people cos this happens!
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hope that helped
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 November 2008): The truth always comes out in the end so it is best it comes from you. I don't know why you think the things you told him would impress him rather than the truth about yourself. Maybe he would like you better the way you are. Tell him sorry that you lied and, if you dare, why you lied. He might be flattered. If he isn't at least you will have stopped it all from playing on your mind. Good luck.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (12 November 2008):
 This just in from the poster:
do you know what? fuck you
i want a fukin answer that will help me
get the fuk off this site your a waste, your not helping anyone!
Seems our little storyteller doesn't really appreciate a good answer when she see it. Be forewarned, my fellow Aunties!
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (12 November 2008):
Tell him there was a tremendous bright light over your mansion last night and when you woke up this morning, your sisters, cars, and mansion had disappeared and your natural hair color changed from the experience. Tell him you suspect a UFO. That ought to peak his interest.
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reader, SirenaBlusera  +, writes (12 November 2008):
 I'm not trying to be mean, but I'd be skeptical of anyone who told me that they have 8 sisters and 5 cars.
Why does it matter how many sisters and cars you have?
I have NO sisters, and my auto is a decrepit piece of you-know-what. If someone sincerely wants to be your friend, it won't matter to them.
The most important thing in a relationship (or friendship) is TRUST. If you don't have trust, then what's left for a friendship? Come clean, and said I screwed up, and I'm sorry. I hope he'll understand, and forgive, and move on.
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reader, lets_party +, writes (12 November 2008):
 y did u feel that u had to lie about who ur family are im sorry to say this but u will get courght out, u cant make up a lie for ever if he likes u for u then he will understand
love lets_partyx
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 November 2008): He probably thought you were weird when you told him you had so many sisters and cars and I think he'll be relieved to find out that it wasn't true! He should respect your honesty and the longer you keep it bottled up the more drastic it will be when he finds out you were lying to him for so long! Get it out in the open before it's too late.
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