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anonymous
writes:My boyfriend of 11 years family and I don't get along, we were really good for 8 years but we fell out and now they won't even speak to me, because of this we didn't get married. Now we have a baby and we believe that it's only right that we get married but my problem is that our wedding won't have anyone from his family and it's very sad, I know if it was me I would want my family there. The thing is our friends think that the baby would change things and his family would come around but I don't know, what do you think? Should I hold on until they come around to get married?
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 January 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhi im still not married but we are going to do it this year my in-laws still not speakin to me but they are comin around so i guess i'll wait on them.
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (14 November 2008):
 What happened to cause this falling out with his family?
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 November 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionOk thanks for that but how about on our wedding day wen hes standing at the altar waiting for me and notice that their is no one from his family(after noticing how great i look that is)that is my fear. his family and i were really good as i said before and i am being honest about everything i still love each and everyone of them and two of his sisters still talks to me wen the others arent around. so u think i should hold on one more year or go ahead. Dont forget the fact that i there is a baby involve which they have accept!
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 November 2008): Marriage is between you and him. Yes they do say that when you marry someone, you marry the whole family. Try to figure out exactly what is it that they dislike about you. What I believe is that as long as you're genuine and honest, they can think whatever they want to but you know that you've done nothing wrong.
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