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writes:Last Friday, I lost my virginity to my boyfriend. It really hurt (me being very nervous probably didn't help) and I bled, but I thought that at least next time it won't hurt as bad. Thing is, my friend told me that if you leave it for a few days your hymen heals itself and you have to break it all over again. is this true?? My boyfriend is coming over on Wednesday. I'm happy to do it again, but I really don't want it to be as painful this time round.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 November 2008): trust me- it DOES NOT grow back..
theres heaps of possible reasons why it hurts for you..
1. being nervous.. tightens you up in the wrong way and makes it harder for penetration
2. not being properly turned out.. foreplay is important for females and yeah they need it to help their bodies become properly prepared for sex. if youre probably turned on you will be tight- but in a way that allows him to move in you and it wont be painful but enjoyable.. also you will produce a natural lube that causes less friction, and allows him to 'slide' more easily and it wont hurt you
3. you have a disease..
4. your physically unfit..
5. dont eat right..
6. your bf has an unnaturally rough dick..
yeah so you should talk to your bf bout that and if hes a good bf he will help ya get that fixed and your sex will be pain-free and pleasurable!
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 November 2008): it DOES NOT grow back..
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 November 2008): TOTAL MYTH! Once it's gone, it's gone, or everyone would have one! Some people never have one in the first place (I didn't.)
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (11 November 2008):
No if it could grow back, then you would have magically become a virgin again.
You lose your virginity and then it is gone.
It gets better because after a while you stretch out and learn to get more turned on.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (11 November 2008):
 Nope, once it's broken, it's broken. However it can still hurt some women to have sex the first few times but never as much as the first time. And yes being nervous can contribute to the pain.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 November 2008): hmmm, I've been asking myself the same question. I've done it over 6 times and i still find it painful! i always complain to my boyfriend that he's hurting me. but he just says it's because we haven't done it in a couple of days.
if this keeps happening i'm done having sex, because i am not guna have sex every single day just to keep it from not healing up!
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reader, Boredatwork +, writes (11 November 2008):
 Did he tell yo this, or have you heared this else where?
Either way, its not true, It does not grow back!
If he told you this, maybe you should ask yourslef why he did?
I cant comment on if it will hurt as much, id say probably not, but it will/may take a while for you to fully enjoy it without any pain.
:)
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 November 2008): I've heard that it's painful the first few times but gets better...I'm losing my virginty tomorrow and I have never been so scared before in my life I'm soo nervous...
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