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writes:How do I make my wife agree to sleep with other men? This is my deepest fantasy and will give me immense pleasure in seeing her having sex with others. Reply to this Question
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reader, leni  +, writes (13 November 2008):
Are you serious!!!! This is pretty digusting of you. I feel sorry for your wife. Why not get divorced then sleep with whoever you want? Marriage says 'forsaking all others'. You should talk with a councillor.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 November 2008): How do I make my wife agree to sleep with other men?
You can't.
You can talk with her about it, and then, it's up to her. She approaches the idea, *at her own comfortable pace*, or she doesn't. If she doesn't want to, trying to force/coerce/etc her into it WILL lead to a lot of problems in your marriage - and possibly end it if you're clumsy enough about it.
Think about it - is there a way she can "make you agree" to give up your fantasy and never think of it again?..Would you be accepting and happy with your wife if she made a concerted effort at doing so, in spite of your objections?.. Treat her with the same respect and consideration you'd want from her - because, if she ever *does* decide to give this a try, you WILL want that respect and consideration from her.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 November 2008): You can't. It is deeply unfair and a gross abuse of the wedding vows which you once made. I seem to remember a similar query a while back; people aren't animals, they don't just obey. Try to think of your wife as a person with emotions and code of what she does and doesn't want to do, rather than simply as your sexual commodity.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 November 2008): I can't see that this is a good faith post.
Judging by its length, it could have been posted to generate controversy, or as some less charitable people would say, "trolling".
If this is genuine, my apologies. However, in my opinion, it's a vile fantasy.
AC
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 November 2008): I'm assuming you've discussed this with her and she's refused. That being the case, I can't see any way that you could make her change her mind. I'm sure there would be no shortage of available men but you've got to look at it from her angle - she probably thinks that you see her as a worthless piece of meat whose only use is for your lustful pleasure.
Sorry mate, I'd think of a different way to get my kicks.
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (12 November 2008):
 Ahhh I see you've come back for another round of abuse. How many times are you going to stick that chin out, Bub?
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 November 2008): y do u want he to sleep with other ppl.
cant u join a club or something
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 November 2008): This is hardly a fair thing to ask her to do! It may be one of your fantasies but think which is worse - not fulfilling one sexual fantasy or being forced to have sex with someone you really don't want to? Not being funny but if my boyfriend asked me to do that I would be tempted to leave, so you're lucky that she has stuck with you.
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reader, helpjayne  +, writes (12 November 2008):
 how about suggest a 3sum
or tell your wife about ur fantasy but don't pressure her into it.
maybe you and her could both come up with a list of what you wana try.
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