How do I know if I'm in love with someone?
Q. I have a huge dilemma. I am 16 years old. How do you know if you are in love with someone? And what do you do if you have a crush on someone a lot older than you? Please help me! ...
A. 22 April 2009: I'm guessing that this poster is no longer reading any answers...Maybe because this was posted YEARS ago?... (read in full...)
My husband seems too chummy with my girlfriends!
Q. Well I've been with my husband for 8 years and for the past 5 someone is always here and it's got to the point he don't touch me and he don't have a desire for sex but he waits for me to take a bath or if I'm still in bed he calls one of my friends ...
A. 18 December 2008: I'd lay down the law if I were you. He is definitely is out of line. I also would never let the friend be alone with your husband. Meet up with your friends away from home. You guys need to see if you can get your sex life back on track, once you ... (read in full...)
Freaked out by my staring teacher!
Q. Ok so the title is 'My teacher seems to stare alot. . .' but he does other things too! To make it simple i will put it all in a list: 1. He stares. . .alot! 2. He always asks to check my work. 3. He looks at, well 'parts' of my body. 4. W...
A. 18 December 2008: I think you have a school girl crush on your teacher. The main symptom is a tendancy to read way too much into innocent actions and words said by a teacher. Don't worry it will pass. Just don't do anything to make yourself look silly.... (read in full...)
Is he making some stupid kind of joke with me, or did I just get hit on for a gay weekend?
Q. I'm a 20 something guy who is not very experienced with women (1 'real' girlfriend). This guy I work with who is 2 or 3 years older than me came up to me and asked me if I went away overnight with some guy and woke up in the morning with a s...
A. 18 December 2008: Not only is it a joke, it's an OLD joke.... (read in full...)
I'm upset that my brother's girlfriend wants to abort, any help?
Q. Hya im only 16 and really need help. Im not supposed to know but ive just found out my brothers ex girlfriend is pregnant. Now she wants to abort it, but she will be 12 - 13 weeks pregnant. Now i know im only 16 but i think its a wrong decision...
A. 18 December 2008: How do you know for sure it's your brother's baby? Are you absolutely sure of your facts?... (read in full...)
I'm sure I'm better suited for this job than my coworker who got it, any advice on what I should do?
Q. Hi, im sorry this isnt a relationship problem but i really need to vent off. I have just been turned down for a job as a team leader in my workplace that i have now been for 2 and a half years. The girl that got the job is my colleague (we are ...
A. 18 December 2008: If you have not discussed your disappointment with your manager you need to do so. He/she owes it to you to give you all the reasons he/shw picked her over you especially since you have senority. I know it must be hard to work under someone YOU'VE ... (read in full...)
I never have the chance to talk to my girlfriend in private because of her friends!...
Q. Hello I'm a 23 years old guy with a big problem well at least to me ! .. here is the whole story .. i used to go to some uni where i met this amazing beautiful girl whom i liked and loved but the problem is .. she's always with her friends .. our ...
A. 18 December 2008: Don't you go out on dates in your country? Ask her out for some coffee or something.... (read in full...)
How to tell parents that I want to move out and to another country to be with my girlfriend?
Q. Hi there, I'm currently living in South Africa and I'm a citizen here by birth, I plan on moving to the USA after April 7 in 2009 because thats when I turn 18, currently I'm 17. I want to move there and go live there permanently for many reaso...
A. 18 December 2008: You wrote about this a couple months ago and got excellent advice, why are you writing again with the exact same question?... (read in full...)
Global Warming.
Q. Okay i am doing a project about global warming for my school i need to survey about 500 people so please help me out..I need to know what you think we are doing to worsten global warming what we should do to change or any thoughts you have on it.. ...
A. 18 December 2008: I think global warming is a lot of hooey. Period.... (read in full...)
Is it ok to kiss an older woman after the first date?
Q. Kissing and the older woman. Ladies can you give some advice? Is it true that in general women like to kiss? Is it ok to kiss an older woman after the first date? Or in general should it wait until the second or third date? Should she take th...
A. 18 December 2008: hee hee... (read in full...)
I don't want to break her heart but I want out!
Q. i am 20 i have been with her for almost two years now and i am beginning to like other girls but she says she is IN love with me. i dont want to break her heart but i dont want to keep going on like everything id okay. any ideas anyone?...
A. 17 December 2008: The sister's right as rain, tell her you need to move on. Break up sshould be done like removing a bandaid fast and in one smooth movement. It hurts much less that way.... (read in full...)
What did the x in the text mean?
Q. hey right about a hour ago , i told this boy who i like, that i love him , but hes got a girl friend i texted him saying "im sorry but i have i bit of feeling for you xx" and he texted back saying "ok x " with a kiss did that mean any thin...
A. 17 December 2008: Why would you tell a boy whom you LIKE that you LOVE him? Must be some 13 year old thing, I don't get it.... (read in full...)
If you swallow sperm, can you get pregnant?
Q. Hi, my question is really embarrassing and I know a lot of people will feel awkward answering it... but I have always wandered but I am to embarrassed to ask any one else... Ok so I'll cut to the chase... basically if cum (sperm) gets on or in any o...
A. 17 December 2008: I say when a 13 year old ask this question we should tell them "Yes indeedy do! You certainly can get pregnant and probably will." I mean what's the harm? Maybe if we can't convince them not to have sex at that age with our wisdom ...we can convince ... (read in full...)
What is the right age to have sex?
Q. hiya people i have a problem what is the right age for sex? I am 18 and my girlfriend wants to have sex. should i do it or am i too young?...
A. 17 December 2008: Great answer pvtguy!... (read in full...)
How do I know if I'm in love with someone?
Q. I have a huge dilemma. I am 16 years old. How do you know if you are in love with someone? And what do you do if you have a crush on someone a lot older than you? Please help me! ...
A. 17 December 2008: I just love how these old chestnuts will surface now and again. Kind of like a walk down memory lane.... (read in full...)
2 months and no "I love you"
Q. Hi, My boyfriend and i have been together now for two months. He treats me really nice and i feel very lucky to have him in my life. Tee problem is that he has said he really likes me and has feelings for me and misses me when i am away. bu...
A. 17 December 2008: Just relax and enjoy the relationship, they can be so exhilarating when they are just beginning, and two months is just the very beginning. He'll say it when he's ready and truly means it, you wouldn't want it any other way, would you?... (read in full...)
How do I get over hopeless love?
Q. How do you get over someone you are very much in love with, who is also in love with you - but for many reasons...you two can not be together?...
A. 17 December 2008: You stay busy, stop all contact with the person, try not to be where ever the other person is, take up a new hobby or interest, do anything that will help keep your mind off the other person. Your answers may be more helpful if you say why it is you ... (read in full...)
Can it be passed on if I've been treated for STD?
Q. If someone has had chlamidia and has been treated for it is there a chance they have still got it, or it can be passed on??...
A. 17 December 2008: Go get another test done, if it's clean so are you and you won't be passing on to anyone. ... (read in full...)
One moment he won't be able to keep his eyes off me, but then another he doesn't even pay the slightest attention to me...
Q. Dear Cupid, I need help! I know this person that "might" be attracted to me, but I'm not for sure. I've debated whether he does, for over 7 months now. This is really hard to explain, but he's kind of off limits, ok I'll just say it, I think wh...
A. 17 December 2008: Just cutting to the chase...... (read in full...)
One moment he won't be able to keep his eyes off me, but then another he doesn't even pay the slightest attention to me...
Q. Dear Cupid, I need help! I know this person that "might" be attracted to me, but I'm not for sure. I've debated whether he does, for over 7 months now. This is really hard to explain, but he's kind of off limits, ok I'll just say it, I think wh...
A. 17 December 2008: You are going to be told over and over that this is a typical school girl crush and that it will fade in time.
You will then claim this is different, this is TRUE LOVE. That that may be true of other girls but you have a more deep, everlast... (read in full...)
I want to change my shit life But how??
Q. I wake up in the monings and never know what to do my room gets mess a lot but I don't see the need to tidy it up cos I have been wating for my room to be decorated for 6 years. I go to college to see my friends but when I come home I don't kno...
A. 17 December 2008: Sounds like you depend on others for everything. Clean and decorate your own room, fix your own board, make friends with people who live by you. Quit all the whining and get busy getting your life in order so you can enjoy yourself. It's all up to ... (read in full...)
My roommate is straight with a girlfriend. I'm gay, I love him, we make out, what should I do?
Q. Ok so here we go.. I'm gay and all my friends and most of my coworkers know it. I have one straight room mate and about 8 months ago my straight room mate asked me to give him a massage and it turned into more then that. At the time i thought ...
A. 17 December 2008: If you don't want to be his little secret then tell him that and that you need to stop any sexual activities. You just want to remain friends only. I really don't see that you have any choice here.... (read in full...)
Custody while having an absent parent?
Q. hi, i live in ohio. my son's father has not seen him since 3-26-06. the last time he saw him he took him to his house instead of to the bowling alley where he said he was going(i let his girlfriend, now his wife pick him up) when i sent my sister to ...
A. 17 December 2008: You need to talk with a lawyer, each state has different takes on child custody laws. ... (read in full...)
Does giving blowjobs make a girl a whore?
Q. If I like giving bj's does that make me a whore...? I give my bf plenty of them cuz in my opinion I find it fun, my friends say that girls who do it a lot are dirty... and even though I try to ignore it, it always comes back... is it bad for a girl ...
A. 17 December 2008: Just know that you can still get STD's from oral sex. Use a condom always.... (read in full...)
I want a guy so bad!
Q. soo basically it comes down to should i stick around or should i move on... well me and my best guy friend had sex in oct.[guy a] of this year and i slept with is best friend[guy b] in nov. of this year [i know that makes me seem like a slut] bu...
A. 17 December 2008: Yep you are heading for slutsville, my dear, and it's a one way ticket. Get some class real fast and in a hurry.... (read in full...)
Is it ok to kiss an older woman after the first date?
Q. Kissing and the older woman. Ladies can you give some advice? Is it true that in general women like to kiss? Is it ok to kiss an older woman after the first date? Or in general should it wait until the second or third date? Should she take th...
A. 16 December 2008: Why do I get the feeling that we are dealing with a budding gigolo here? Dating tips and kissing tips for older(never said how much older) women to a guy who is 18-21. Just what is the agenda here young man? Why aren't you out chasing down the ... (read in full...)
She acts likes she's possessed by a demon during sex!
Q. Hi guys i have been with my current girlfriend for 2 months now. Things are going great, and we have just started having sexual intercourse recently. The sex is great, but is sort of getting over shadowed by the way her reactions are during. Her ...
A. 16 December 2008: "A lady on the street and a freak in the bed." I think you are going to get more pats on the back than anything else, Buddy.... (read in full...)
I'm afraid to have sex but I don't want to neglect him!
Q. I'm scared witless by the thoughts of having sex, i'm 17 and i've been going out with my first boyfriend for a time now, he is 22 and has much experience. i feel trapped and in some ways forced to have sex, but i feel like i'll would be hurting him ...
A. 16 December 2008: First off, you never want to lose your virginity just to please some one else, especially if you aren't feeling ready. Secondly, if this guy is worth his salt he will never pressure you into it. Not everyone is ready to have sex at the same age, ... (read in full...)
He said he can't give me what I want...
Q. I have been chatting to a guy on the internet for a year, said he loves me, but can't give me what I want, says loves chatting etc, he has my address but I don't have his. He has never mentioned meeting, but sent flowers for my birthday. We are ...
A. 16 December 2008: I guess I just don't understand how anyone would remotely call this a relationship, chatting over the internet but never met face to face? FOR A YEAR? He's playing games and you, are you really wondering if you are wasting your time? Hell yes, you ... (read in full...)
I attach great value to myself as a person and cannot bear to see myself governed by basic animalistic instincts.
Q. I really thought I was immune to being constantly hit on by guys over the years. The disgust I felt at the thought that they didnt care to respect I was in a long term marriage helped greatly to combat their attempts. I recently joined a new comp...
A. 16 December 2008: How is it that not once do you mention whether you love your husband, you mention having sex but you didn't say you loved him. Do you?... (read in full...)
Where are some good places to take an older woman out on a date?
Q. I am interested in dating an older woman. Ladies can you give some advice? Where are some good places to take an older woman out on a date? Hiking? Café/restaurant? Club? Dancing? Other ideas? I think women like shopping. Does shopping ...
A. 16 December 2008: How much older are we talking here? Do we have worry about where to park her walker on the dance floor or what?... (read in full...)
Is it ok to kiss an older woman after the first date?
Q. Kissing and the older woman. Ladies can you give some advice? Is it true that in general women like to kiss? Is it ok to kiss an older woman after the first date? Or in general should it wait until the second or third date? Should she take th...
A. 16 December 2008: How much older are we talking here? I mean are we worried a deep kiss might loosen her dentures or what?... (read in full...)
Why is my private area darker than the rest of my skin?
Q. Hello, My virginia is darker then the rest of my skin... I have a sandy golden tan... but I noticed that my private area is more darker... why is this? Do guys find this attractive? ...
A. 16 December 2008: Uncle Phil, you are such a "ham".... (read in full...)
I slept with my best friends boyfriend, and probably will again!
Q. I have fallen for my best friends boyfriend. I didn't think anything would happen, but last week we ended up sleeping together. He's joking that it is bound to happen again, and we're in constant contact but I feel like the worst person on the pl...
A. 16 December 2008: I don't think you can still refer to her as your best friend. And if you think he won't break up with her so he can be with you, why are you lowering yourself to just being someone he screws? One minute you feel like the worst person in the world ... (read in full...)
My daughters are calling my girlfriend nasty names and I can't get them to stop!
Q. My daughters (they're only 8 and 5 of age) call my girlfriend (of 2 years) names like b!tch, s*ut, wh*re, ugly, fat, skank, smelly, tramp and the list goes on. I cant them to stop. Of couse I give them time out after time out but its losing its ...
A. 16 December 2008: Have them suck on a bar of soap whenever they start using bad language.... (read in full...)
I want sex with my cousin but she says no.... what to do???
Q. Hi my name is jaan, iwant to have sex with my cousine sister.whenever i tried to seduce her she refuses. i am very cofused and frustrated. please help me. Thanks...
A. 16 December 2008: Hey Bugs, you're back! We've missed you!... (read in full...)
Why is my private area darker than the rest of my skin?
Q. Hello, My virginia is darker then the rest of my skin... I have a sandy golden tan... but I noticed that my private area is more darker... why is this? Do guys find this attractive? ...
A. 16 December 2008: I live in North Carolina, and travel up to Virginia frequently, I never noticed it being any darker than usual.... (read in full...)
My wife talks to her ex lover, what should I do?
Q. WIfe still talking to ex lover. Said "Just Friends" Ask here why she needs to talk to him? No real answer. Ask to let "me" in on the talks... nope.... Said nothing sexual being talked about... What should I do?...
A. 16 December 2008: I agree, tell her to knock this nonsense off or you'll show her the door.... (read in full...)
Should I ask him to leave his wife of 37 years for me?
Q. I'm in love with a married man. We've been seeing each other everyday now for the past 6months sex is great.how can I ask him to leave his wife of 37 yrs. No kids involved,but there is a grand child. How can his wife not expect something? ...
A. 16 December 2008: You can say something like this, "Honey, why don't you leave that wife of 37 years, whom you've managed to have a grandchild by without having any children, for me, a cheating, honor-lacking, integrity-lacking, homewrecker?"... (read in full...)
Do penis pills work?
Q. does anyone know if those penis pills work? and if they do which ones will work?...
A. 16 December 2008: Good call Uncle Phil, I too just assumed he meant those "grow to be two inches longer" penis pill advertisments. ... (read in full...)
My wife wants me to be active in bed, but I am passive and wait for her to ask!!
Q. I have been married for 2 years. My wife has 3 young childfren from a previous relationship, but was never married. The past year and a half we have had no sex life, maybe every 3 or 4 months. She wanted me to be aggressive and go after it, and I ...
A. 16 December 2008: Wow, you sure can see who wears the pants in your family! Buddy, keep going to that counseling and if it isn't helping you then switch to another one until you get the help you need. You need to get that self esteem built up. Your marriage is ... (read in full...)
Does anyone understand why he is now ignoring me?
Q. I need a good, clear, understandable explanation to this puzzling problem Why would a guy I've had a past with and admitted before that he liked me, text me (sometimes 5 times a day), talk to me online, tell me about his life and what he's doing,...
A. 15 December 2008: Who knows, maybe he's busy, maybe he has poor manners, maybe he has decided he doesn't want to be with you and doesn't have the cojones to tell you, could be lots of reasons. You'll have to wait for your answer, but just don't wait too long.... (read in full...)
My wife wants me to be active in bed, but I am passive and wait for her to ask!!
Q. I have been married for 2 years. My wife has 3 young childfren from a previous relationship, but was never married. The past year and a half we have had no sex life, maybe every 3 or 4 months. She wanted me to be aggressive and go after it, and I ...
A. 15 December 2008: Get more aggressive and ask for it more. You may bring her back more than just experience if you go screwing around. I wonder if she thinks that giving you permission to run amuck means she'll be able to do the same? ... (read in full...)
I want sex with my cousin but she says no.... what to do???
Q. Hi my name is jaan, iwant to have sex with my cousine sister.whenever i tried to seduce her she refuses. i am very cofused and frustrated. please help me. Thanks...
A. 15 December 2008: Why are you confused? She's not interested and told you so. Suck it up and move on.... (read in full...)
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