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writes:I have huge crush on my best friends ex-boyfriend! They are sort of on and off, and he has been flirting with me a bit lately, but I am just really attracted to him and I feel like I connect and appreciate him more than my bestie. I feel really bad for feeling like this, especially because my best friend still likes him and they are constantly flirting as well, I just feel so left out. I really want to go out with him just to try it out, but I think he likes her more and its totally against the 'rules' of friendship right? Whenever they go out they constantly fight, and I feel that him and I would just go together so well. If nothing can happen between us, then how can I get over him? He is in like a bunch of my classes and is always cuddling and flirting with my bestie, and he will probably ask her out soon. Its so depressing, I feel like such a loner cause no other guys like me!
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 December 2008): If your friend and the ex had been cleanly broken up for a while I would say talk to your friend and then go for it. As things sit now, you should by NO means go out with him! How to get over him? Date someone else if you think it's necessary-- but be careful! You certainly want to wait until things come to a complete cooldown before you make a move on this guy. But please consider, is someone this flirtatious and inconsiderate of both his friend's and his ex's feelings really the kind of guy you want to date?
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 November 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionok here is an update: he has confessed to liking me back, so now we both like each other a lot but we cant go out or anything because my best friend would be so hurt! i dont know what to do.
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (12 November 2008):
 I think you just need to back off a bit, he likes her more and if you come on too strong you will be left in the dirt by both he and your best friend. Some one will come along for you, be patient.
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