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writes: I wake up in the monings and never know what to do my room gets mess a lot but I don't see the need to tidy it up cos I have been wating for my room to be decorated for 6 years. I go to college to see my friends but when I come home I don't know what to do. My friends live far way but I can't travel by myself at the momont. The queston is can anyone tell me what I could do to make is life not so Shit Help plzzz I do like skating though but am waiting for my brother to fix my board. Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (17 December 2008):
Sounds like you depend on others for everything. Clean and decorate your own room, fix your own board, make friends with people who live by you. Quit all the whining and get busy getting your life in order so you can enjoy yourself. It's all up to you to do this.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 December 2008): How often do you skate? Perhaps you could turn up to the skate park on a bmx or roller blades lol! Are there any other clubs near you that you might enjoy? I attend dance and singing classes when I'm not at college. Don't replace your old friends but make some new ones closer to home as well. Talk to your old friends on the phone or online. Are you still at high school? Because when you leave it will be all systems go and your life will feel less empty - or at least that's what happened to me!
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 December 2008): Your parents probably don't see any point in decorating your room because it's always in a shit state!
How about you tidy it up and offer to decorate it yourself if they get a can of paint and/or some wallpaper? You're not too young to do that sort of thing yourself and you'll probably need to learn how to do it sometime in your life, so why not now? Having done the job yourself you'll have the incentive to keep it looking nice, I'm sure.
B&Q have free leaflets on how to do dozens of DIY jobs.
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reader, StudentOfLife +, writes (17 December 2008):
Tired of chatting online?
I love to read so most of my "bored time" is spent in books. I'm reading leadership books right now, really helpful.
I just like to learn stuff, sometime I cook random things. It's fun to just do nothing sometimes and think about stuff, you can come up with pretty interesting things when your mind is not entertained with anything else but your thoughts.
I play games sometimes too, or watch cartoons (This side of me never seems to grow up).
The definition of insanity is "Doing the same thing over and over again expecting different result".
I hope I was able to help a little, looking forward to hear of you again.
Have a nice day! :)
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