I want to get pregnant and cant!
Q. ok yes i do want to get pregnet and i had unprotected sex all the time i been with my man for 2 years and we never get pregnet i wanna know y i cant get pregnet???????????i had sex just before i got my period can i still get pregnet??????????????...
A. 5 January 2009: Please oh please tell me you don't live in North Carolina...... (read in full...)
Why after 15 years of blissful marriage have I just started to look at my wife and ask myself do I fancy her???
Q. Why after 15 years of blissful marriage have I just started to look at my wife and ask myself do I fancy her any more. It has just started and driving me crazy, I can't talk to anyone as I don't want to upset her, I love her to bits . I just want to ...
A. 5 January 2009: That's just fine but if you think you are truly losing control the anti-depressants can really help. You are monitoring yourself very closely and very well so if you see some serious "slippage" get your butt back to the doc's, okay? The holidays can ... (read in full...)
How can I get through a day without worrying about his cheating on me?
Q. how can i get through a day without imangining my partner cheating on me, why can i not get through a day without checking his phone. why do i assume that he will at some point cheat on me and why do i think that he will cheat ion me?...
A. 5 January 2009: "Dr. Phil" hee hee... (read in full...)
So I took a pregnancy test this morning (negative) but then why am I feeling these symptoms?
Q. i posted a question the other day. i had unproctected sex with my boss on dec 27. he didnt cum inside of me and he was only in me for about 5 mins. my period is due on the 10th and i counted back and the day b4 we had sex i was at my most fertile. ...
A. 5 January 2009: You should wait until you have missed your period, then take the test. It's too early to have any symptoms of pregnancy so whatever you are feeling is due to something else or just in your mind. I hope you aren't pregnant, babies deserve to be ... (read in full...)
Why after 15 years of blissful marriage have I just started to look at my wife and ask myself do I fancy her???
Q. Why after 15 years of blissful marriage have I just started to look at my wife and ask myself do I fancy her any more. It has just started and driving me crazy, I can't talk to anyone as I don't want to upset her, I love her to bits . I just want to ...
A. 5 January 2009: Did the doctor prescribe any medications to help you through this?... (read in full...)
Female curious about animal sex
Q. my friend has a male dog he's about 3 yrs old. she's been curious about having sex with animals is it ever sinces she was 9. is it alright for her to do it with out getting Any Std's? ...
A. 4 January 2009: Oh yes...Fleas, while not technically a STD they sure can be a nuisance.... (read in full...)
Female curious about animal sex
Q. my friend has a male dog he's about 3 yrs old. she's been curious about having sex with animals is it ever sinces she was 9. is it alright for her to do it with out getting Any Std's? ...
A. 4 January 2009: Well let's see, Dog STD's there's:
RinTinTitus
Lassieiphillis
Cujomidia
and
Fidosymplex
There may be more I'm unaware of, best to check with a vet to be on the safe side. ... (read in full...)
What do I do... my husband has left
Q. My husband of 21 years has left me after telling me he has feelings for this woman. He says he can't come home for the damage he has done to me and our 3 teenager children. He does show remorse, he feels bad for the way things have turned out, we ...
A. 4 January 2009: First thing...stay calm. Second thing...do your crying in private away from the kids. Thirdly...stay calm. Your husband may or may not be having a mid-life crisis but whatever the reason know that HE CHOSE this line of action, it was absolutely ... (read in full...)
Why is he ignoring me like that?
Q. I don't know what to do. I have fallen head over heals for my best friend. We go to movies together, and get food together, but I want more. Usually he will call me every night and we will talk till one of us falls asleep but lately he hasn't called ...
A. 4 January 2009: How can we know? Next time he contacts you can ask him. Obviously he isn't as into you as you are in him but the only way to find out is to ask him.... (read in full...)
What do GIRLS consider to be the size of a big penis and a small penis?
Q. Okay everyone asks what is the AVERAGE penis size. However I'd just like to know: 1)What do girls consider big or large 2)What do girls consider small I know the results will vary for everyone but I was just wondering. Post your thoughts a...
A. 4 January 2009: Rather than repeated post this question why don't you go to the Big Questions category on this site and read the hundreds of answers you and others have already received?... (read in full...)
How do I deal with his "hobby"?
Q. Thank you to everyone who responded to my question here: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/my-husband-is-storing-up-so-much-timber.html With regard to Gina's answer, I did try to get him to sit down and talk, but he just stomped off, and went ou...
A. 4 January 2009: He sounds off his rocker to me. I'd separate and tell him he needs to get therapy immediately. You could probably benefit from some as well because it may be a long road ahead of you and you will need a strong coping mechanism for your sake as well ... (read in full...)
Is this a good reason to marry? Will the marriage last?
Q. i have a daughter who is nearly ten and she is an only child at present not only for me but also for her father. three years ago my exes dad died after a long illness and then just over a year ago his mum died suddenly. i found out just aft...
A. 4 January 2009: People don't always marry for love, I mean let's be real. Sometimes love comes into the relationship after marriage. You can explain your views on marriage to your daughter if she seems confused but what really is at issue is that you are so very ... (read in full...)
Does he like me or my cooking?
Q. Well here is my story, please bear with me as it is long.. I have been working for 2 years now and have been living on my own for about 8- 9 months now. I use to work at the accounting branch at reception, i was moved to the manufacturing branch ...
A. 4 January 2009: I would just like to know if its possible that he likes me, likes going out with me, or does he just like my cooking?
Sounds like all of the above... (read in full...)
Do I go back to my abusive ex bf or stay with my current guy?
Q. I have recently split up with my partner of 2 and a half years (billy). He has hit me several times and i had also stopped fancying him, i went off sex with him so i decided that it was time to end it. I have started seeing an ex boyfriend (Jason), ...
A. 4 January 2009: I can, stay with Jason.... (read in full...)
Is this a good reason to marry? Will the marriage last?
Q. i have a daughter who is nearly ten and she is an only child at present not only for me but also for her father. three years ago my exes dad died after a long illness and then just over a year ago his mum died suddenly. i found out just aft...
A. 4 January 2009: What difference does it make to you as to why he got married? He sounds like he is a good father to your daughter so be grateful for that and get busy with your own life. ... (read in full...)
He does not want to leave his wife for fear that he would lose his child.
Q. I fell in love with a married man. He claims he loves me deeply and I'm his true love. While he is married, he has no love for his wife, who abuses him verbally and uses their child against him. She guards their daughter, tells her lies about the ...
A. 4 January 2009: Sorry ladies but you are in total denial. You KNOW that if these MM were truly miserable and truly loved you they would move Heaven and earth to be with you. You are ALLOWING the liars to have everything on a silver platter. You will, down the road, ... (read in full...)
Is a 1 inch hard erect penis large enough to please a girl?
Q. Is a 1 inch hard erect penis large enough to please a girl? P.S. For the publishers. You rejected by last post as you said it was a duplicate. But the first post I made (which you are here regarding as the duplicate) was also rejected as it w...
A. 4 January 2009: Since you posted this earlier:
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-seem-to-be-the-only-one-struggling.html
Surely you can talk to your doctor about your penis concerns?... (read in full...)
My husband is storing up so much timber there's no where else for it to go! It's really worrying me.
Q. For the past month and a half my husband has spent (I estimate) about $15,000 on wire and timber - and our garden looks like a building yard. Yet he doesn't work in the building industry, he works as a customer services manager and gets a high ...
A. 4 January 2009: What is DIY? Has your husband done other impulsive spending sprees before? Why is it none of your business?... (read in full...)
Is a 1 inch hard erect penis large enough to please a girl?
Q. Is a 1 inch hard erect penis large enough to please a girl? P.S. For the publishers. You rejected by last post as you said it was a duplicate. But the first post I made (which you are here regarding as the duplicate) was also rejected as it w...
A. 4 January 2009: Talk to your Dad. You may have just not started puberty yet. You don't need to be worried about pleasing a girl at this point, just talk to Dad and see what he advises, that's why we have parents.... (read in full...)
He's married - is it still possible for me to have a friendship with him?
Q. I met a (married) guy quite some time ago, and he was recently working in the town where I live in. I stopped by to see him while he was working (he asked me to). When I saw him, he seemed quite flustered when we were chatting. We were planning on ...
A. 3 January 2009: Yep the grey area that you speak of is where the wife ends up with incredible pain because some woman didn't respect her boundaries. You aren't looking for friendship you are looking for trouble. Denial is a very nasty thing, it always comes back to ... (read in full...)
He's married - is it still possible for me to have a friendship with him?
Q. I met a (married) guy quite some time ago, and he was recently working in the town where I live in. I stopped by to see him while he was working (he asked me to). When I saw him, he seemed quite flustered when we were chatting. We were planning on ...
A. 3 January 2009: Gee Eddie, don't you hate being right all the time, I know I sure do.... (read in full...)
He's married - is it still possible for me to have a friendship with him?
Q. I met a (married) guy quite some time ago, and he was recently working in the town where I live in. I stopped by to see him while he was working (he asked me to). When I saw him, he seemed quite flustered when we were chatting. We were planning on ...
A. 3 January 2009: Alrighty then Sunshine, what EXACTLY are you looking for from this site? Whether or not you were "reading him right"?
Whether you made a fool of yourself with your comment? If all you are looking for is friendship what does it matter anyway. I stil... (read in full...)
My half family makes my life very hard!
Q. My half families never like me since I was a baby. I am the black sheep of my entire family. Whenever we are together I have to put up very unkind humiliations and verbal abuses etc. No one in my family has ever given me supports of any kind. When ...
A. 3 January 2009: You don't sound the slightest "odd". You sound like a very admirable person. You can't pick you family but you can make your own friends. I think maybe that's exactly what you need to focus on right now. I think you will find out that you do indeed ... (read in full...)
How do I get my bloke to dress smarter because when we go out he embarasses me!
Q. Afternoon All! Im hoping to get some advice. I've been seeing this guy for a few months-we met at a theatre group and got on really well.He's 19 im 21. The problem i have is with his dress sense. For work he wears nice suits but when we go out...
A. 3 January 2009: Okay this takes a great deal of finesse but it is possible to STEER him towards the better outfits but you have to make it appear that he's doing the selections. My husband has the fashion sense of a turnip so I speak from 33 years of experience. ... (read in full...)
He's married - is it still possible for me to have a friendship with him?
Q. I met a (married) guy quite some time ago, and he was recently working in the town where I live in. I stopped by to see him while he was working (he asked me to). When I saw him, he seemed quite flustered when we were chatting. We were planning on ...
A. 3 January 2009: Sorry Sunshine but your answers and attitude just don't jell. I doubt very much that you sleep in the same bed with someone else's husband WITH their permission...ALL the time. I also doubt that you have had cheating spouses, and if you did, that ... (read in full...)
What should I do about her jealousy?
Q. My fiance and I have been in a relationship for about a year and a half. Generally, we get along well and of course there are bumps in the road every once in a while like any relationship, but one bump that comes up a lot is my interaction with ...
A. 3 January 2009: I think a lot of time jealousy issues stem from a need to control. Controlling people are usually jealous types as well. She wants to control every facet of your life, if, when, who, and where you see other people. I think you need to have a long ... (read in full...)
He's upset because I took the morning after pill!
Q. I took some emergency contraception pills yesterday after unprotected sex with my boyfriend. I told him that i need to take them and he sounded like he understood. Last night when i was talking to him again, he mentioned that he didn't really like ...
A. 3 January 2009: He obviously doesn't understand human reproduction very clearly. You explained it to him very well. He'll get over it.... (read in full...)
My b/f now wants to be FWB
Q. my boyfriend of 1 and half years, told me that he wanted to be just friends with benefits, i agreed as i still love him, and it was a way for me still to see him. i cannot bare the thought of not seeing him, and i am hoping that he realizes ...
A. 3 January 2009: You are going down the road to misery. Tell this guy that he can take his FWB and find another sucker. See him for the person he truly is and that will help you get over the pain of breaking away. Know that you are worth so much more and that you ... (read in full...)
He is asking me for no strings sex, what should I answer him?
Q. This guy is with me since 2 years ago. We have kissed and caressed each other. He is asking me for sex, but without love and emotions. On New year eve he called me up and again asked me for sexual relations. I said him that i love him, and i also ...
A. 3 January 2009: Consider yourself wise and fortunate to have escaped his grimy claws. What a tool.... (read in full...)
Do men like virgins?
Q. Do men like virgins?...
A. 3 January 2009: Sigh...another ambiguous polling question....... (read in full...)
I really am in my 30's and don't know anything about kissing...
Q. Hi, I was woundering is it strange to never have experencd a kiss of any of descrption at 35 years old. I never had a bofriend, always had problems getting one because I am very quiet and shy and innocent. How do I get a kiss me when they don't ...
A. 30 December 2008: Do you get out and about with friends and activities? You need to make sure the guys can FIND you. If you stay highly visable then sooner or later some guy is bound to notice you. Don't hole up somewhere, join clubs, do volunteer work, get involved ... (read in full...)
Does the pill actually allow you to have a period or does it have a fake period?
Q. I haven't had my period yet but I'm due in a couple of days and I was wondering. I'm on the pill and I was wondering does the pill actually allow you to have a period or does it have a fake period. I've heard rumours that it isn't your real period ...
A. 30 December 2008: It's your real period, only regulated by the pill.... (read in full...)
What to do to see my boyfriend?
Q. I have told my dad that my crush and i are going out. He was happy for me. I convinced him to let me go to his house, thought he cant take the decision alone. My parents are separated and have different point of views.Im afraid my mom wont let me ...
A. 30 December 2008: Ask your mom.... (read in full...)
Sould I continue a relationship that is illigal and my parents wouldn't like?
Q. Im 15 and a freshmen and my boyfriend is 18 and a sinor, and illegal for me. We arent going out really cuz we are school only has a student body of 600 students the which 30 no my parents, and im not allowed to go out with anyone cuz of church so ...
A. 30 December 2008: No
No
and
No... (read in full...)
Why is it so hard for him to tell his ex that he met someone?
Q. I'm a little concerned with my relationship. My BF of 6 months is recently divorced and we met while he was waiting for it to be final. He still hasn't introduced me to his friends because his ex is friends with them too and I also haven't met his ...
A. 30 December 2008: You don't say how long he was married but it sounds like it was for quite a while. This will take some time to sort out but eventually he's just going to have to take the plunge and introduce you. However the fact that he was cheating on his wife ... (read in full...)
Obsessed with wife's ex-lover/experience
Q. This sounds ridiculous but I need some perspective. I've been married 10 years. Good enough marriage. My wife isn't great in bed, and isn't enthusiastic about love-making, even though I sometimes make her howl with delight. However, I've been ...
A. 30 December 2008: Please look at the links that Yos has provided. Until I read those postings I would have said you were being ridiculous too. However this is a real problem for some people and does cause a lot of pain for those involved. You will see that it is ... (read in full...)
Have sex? Or wait?
Q. Hey Everyone, sorry for the lenqth in advance. But I'm a fifteen year old qirl and I've been datinq my boyfriend for three months. We are very much in love with eachother. For the past couple of days I've really been thinkinq about sex. ...
A. 30 December 2008: A very wise decision on your part. Now you guys can relax and just have fun getting to know each other and making memories.... (read in full...)
How do I tell my husband to leave? The psychic said I have good energy with this other guy.
Q. I am 45, in my second marriage and I want my husband to leave me. We have been married for 5 years. We lived together for 4 years. I pay all the bills. He pays for the grocery bill. Financially I am so strapped. Of course, he says if I need ...
A. 29 December 2008: You don't say whether or not you've talked to him about the financial arrangement. Does he know he is putting a strain on your finances? If you want out then tell him to pack his bags but do it only if it's something you'd be doing even without your ... (read in full...)
I'm 15 and fancy an 11 year old!
Q. My question is . . . I am 15 years old and there is this young girl who is 11 years old, she fancies me. I think she is really attractive! Her mum is also my mums friend. I want to get with her but im afraid she will tell her mum then it will be ...
A. 29 December 2008: Whatever you do DON'T listen to the first answer. You'll end up in the place where you never want to drop the soap. When she is 14 you'll be classified as an adult. Back off Jack.... (read in full...)
Have sex? Or wait?
Q. Hey Everyone, sorry for the lenqth in advance. But I'm a fifteen year old qirl and I've been datinq my boyfriend for three months. We are very much in love with eachother. For the past couple of days I've really been thinkinq about sex. ...
A. 29 December 2008: The relationship should AREADY be strong before you get intimate with someone. Three months is a drop in the bucket as far as relationships go, let it stand the test of time.... (read in full...)
Do you think he respects me? Should I send the topless photo?
Q. My boyfriend said that if i dont send him a braless picture from ma neck to waist he wont go on o2 unlimited on his mobile so he can text me as many times as he wants. I said no and he said so everything you said you will do with me i.e. pleasure n ...
A. 29 December 2008: Please PM me, honey. I think we need to chat.... (read in full...)
Do you think he respects me? Should I send the topless photo?
Q. My boyfriend said that if i dont send him a braless picture from ma neck to waist he wont go on o2 unlimited on his mobile so he can text me as many times as he wants. I said no and he said so everything you said you will do with me i.e. pleasure n ...
A. 27 December 2008: Of course he doesn't respect you and if you don't want everyone you know (and even people you don't know) to see your picture then you'd best not give it to him. He'll post it on every website he can find and there won't be a damn thing you can do ... (read in full...)
Why after 15 years of blissful marriage have I just started to look at my wife and ask myself do I fancy her???
Q. Why after 15 years of blissful marriage have I just started to look at my wife and ask myself do I fancy her any more. It has just started and driving me crazy, I can't talk to anyone as I don't want to upset her, I love her to bits . I just want to ...
A. 8 December 2008: Sounds like you are getting a handle on the situation. Like I said before it's a good thing you were so on top of things so you didn't let it spiral out of control.... (read in full...)
Why after 15 years of blissful marriage have I just started to look at my wife and ask myself do I fancy her???
Q. Why after 15 years of blissful marriage have I just started to look at my wife and ask myself do I fancy her any more. It has just started and driving me crazy, I can't talk to anyone as I don't want to upset her, I love her to bits . I just want to ...
A. 1 December 2008: Tell your doctor exactly what you have told us, I'm sure most doctors will be able to address your concerns with many viable options for you to consider. You are fortunate that you were able to determine that something was not right early on, ... (read in full...)
Why after 15 years of blissful marriage have I just started to look at my wife and ask myself do I fancy her???
Q. Why after 15 years of blissful marriage have I just started to look at my wife and ask myself do I fancy her any more. It has just started and driving me crazy, I can't talk to anyone as I don't want to upset her, I love her to bits . I just want to ...
A. 1 December 2008: You have decided to do the correct thing, it really sounds like you are having panic attacks and it just is focused on your wife, but most likely has nothing to do with her or your feelings for her, more likely it's strain at work, your father's ... (read in full...)
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